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FlyingTortoise

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Aug 20, 2025
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I will go like a pure innocent person
Like a baby

Other virgins here ?
 
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k1m

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Feb 6, 2025
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The whole preoccupation with virginity, for both sexes, is based on the idea that women are men's property. Sex is something a woman gives up to a man instead of being something two people do together bc they love each other. It's not a fun dynamic to be in! Very dehumanizing to think of yourself in that way.
 
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shampoo sniffer

Student
Aug 10, 2025
116
Me.

Isaac Newton and Emily Bronte, two famous historical people that I admire, both died as virgins.
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
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Me. I'm neither proud or ashamed of it. Sex was always connected to love for me so, it would have been a mistake I think for me to have gone for any of the (very) few opportunities I got. I think that simply would have done me more harm than good. To speak crudely, it's not like I will have died without knowing what an orgasm feels like. Lol. So, maybe not quite so innocent.
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
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Virgins can murder. Virgins can steal. Virgins can spread hate speech. Being a virgin does not prove any sort of "purity " or "innocence", it proves you have never had sex. That is it.
 
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Bootleg Astolfo

Bootleg Astolfo

Glorious Bean Plushie
Oct 12, 2020
934
I can't wait until this thread inevitably turns into a battle of la somme tier shtishow ! Don't mind me, just a war observer who's early.
 
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unluckysadness

unluckysadness

Wizard
Jul 9, 2025
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Me.

Isaac Newton and Emily Bronte, two famous historical people that I admire, both died as virgins.
Nikola Tesla too I think (I read it but don't know if it's true)
Me too. But I don't think I'm an innocent and pure person. I can be a bad person sometimes. Anyway everyone is different.
 
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Cauliflour

The masochist who doodles.
Mar 24, 2025
478
I hate how people think that virgins are all pure and shit. I haven't had sex before but that doesn't mean my brain doesn't think about it quite a bit! Virgin
 
traumer

traumer

the thorn
Nov 18, 2023
116
Ahahaha;-; Not all virgins are the same I'm a virgin myself but I'm hypersexual and think about sex probably more than a person who has it regularly I also hate touching people lol
 
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Still here

Member
Feb 11, 2025
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The whole preoccupation with virginity, for both sexes, is based on the idea that women are men's property. Sex is something a woman gives up to a man instead of being something two people do together bc they love each other. It's not a fun dynamic to be in! Very dehumanizing to think of yourself in that way.
Couldn't be more truer.....
 
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RosebyAnyName

RosebyAnyName

Staring at the ceiling for 6 hours
Nov 9, 2023
288
I don't agree with op that being a virgin means you are pure or innocent, but I don't really blame them because it's an extremely common and prevalent belief in most cultures and through a lot (not all, but a lot) of human history. I don't agree with it or want it to be true, but at some point you feel pressured by the common consensus to play by society's rules or risk social expulsion. Not sure OP's gender but I'm female and there's a huge social and even safety risk to not valuing your virginity.

I'm also happy to die a virgin, I know any kind of sex at this point would be traumatizing for me and I take comfort in that being one less thing to worry about other people "taking" from me before I go. I've even feared that whoever finds my corpse after my CTB wouldn't be able to resist sexually assaulting said corpse. I know that's a weird thing to worry about if I'd already be dead, but somehow that makes me feel worse. My idealized CTB method would involve somehow obliterating my body to dust so it could in theory remain "pure." It's fucked up.
 
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TrappedGnostic

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Jun 3, 2025
20
No it's not. It means that I have failed as a biological unit and social animal, and my colossal failures on this front as well as the social one are the biggest fuel for my suicidal fantasies.
 
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k1m

Member
Feb 6, 2025
49
No it's not. It means that I have failed as a biological unit and social animal, and my colossal failures on this front as well as the social one are the biggest fuel for my suicidal fantasies.
So you're a man, and you're upset no woman will give herself up to you.

Does that sound fun to you? Honestly, would you like being with a partner who is just an object to you? Who you can't talk to about how you feel because you're ruled by monkey instincts? That's hell, and it always goes downhill.

You have it backward. You're sad, lonely, insecure -> you fixate on something external like sex -> you get bothered by the fact that you're not having it.
 

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