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Final_frontier

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Feb 23, 2019
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I'm scared of dying alone because I have this fear I'll be alone in the afterlife if there is one. I cant find any partners on this site from my country who are willing, and I dont have the money to travel to a foreign country, neither are anyone willing to come to me. What do I do?
 
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JimFord99

JimFord99

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If there is an afterlife, you won't be alone. Countless souls would be there as countless beings have died before.
 
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Not_Quite_Dead_Yet

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Oct 27, 2018
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As many great thinkers have pointed out, one is born alone and dies alone. Having another body in the room/car/forest/bridge/whatever at the moment of departure does not negate the actuality that death is a solitary experience. And how would you know that the "partner" wouldn't survive the experience anyway, leaving you alone on your own journey to where-ever? Sounds like a whole lotta hassle to find to find a companion who may turn out to be a pain in the butt after all.
 
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ALittleBurden

ALittleBurden

Tens of personalities wearing one trench coat
Aug 19, 2019
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It's hard ctb alone, but you really don't have to worry about the afterlife. If there is one then you will be surrounded by people who have experiences similar to yours.
 
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Jean Améry

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Mar 17, 2019
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In the moment of your death (no matter how it comes about) many humans will also die. The afterlife is most likely a pipedream but even if it weren't: why would dying alone lead to being alone in the afterlife? Like others said: given the amount of people that have died I'd say it's likely there will be loads of people there.
 
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Wackywoo

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Aug 24, 2019
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If you want company consider finding a friend through online. Talk to them and do a Skype call you don't have to have someone's in the same room with you to have company.
 
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BipolarExpat

BipolarExpat

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May 30, 2019
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This "countless souls," "surrounded by people with similar experiences," "loads of people," statements sound absolutely dreadful.

If there's an afterlife, do you really feel it'd be plagued by overpopulation/limited space & freedom as this planet mostly is(?)

I hope not...
 
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JimFord99

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This "countless souls," "surrounded by people with similar experiences," "loads of people," statements sound absolutely dreadful.

If there's an afterlife, do you really feel it'd be plagued by overpopulation/limited space & freedom as this planet mostly is(?)

I hope not...
No, not at all. In another Elam it won't matter.
 
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k3v3r

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Apr 25, 2019
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I'm in the same boat.... Actually that's one of the main reasons i'm still alive. I fantasize of leaving while holding someone i really love's hand
 
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Kirkscoobz

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Feb 8, 2019
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Well, any one is welcome to join me in my departure, it will be me travelling up to Brecon in the deep woodland's in winter this year, taking a lot of sedatives with some booze and letting the cold take me, I won't be aware when hypothermia takes me from this world, happy days.
 
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JimFord99

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Aug 18, 2019
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Well, any one is welcome to join me in my departure, it will be me travelling up to Brecon in the deep woodland's in winter this year, taking a lot of sedatives with some booze and letting the cold take me, I won't be aware when hypothermia takes me from this world, happy days.
That is my sort of plan. In the cold, not the Brecon but the South Downs. SN is the method I have chosen.