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disabledlife

disabledlife

Arcanist
Jun 5, 2020
451
In some countries, in Europe, in France, in Quebec, there are laws that oblige relatives to help other relatives, according to the "family" laws!

These laws oblige parents to help their children in distress, when they have no resources, nothing to meet their needs... In this case, it is normal for parents to be obliged to pay child support. , money, food, to house their children! A child has not asked to be born and is afraid of finding himself in spite of himself, and through the fault of his parents (abuse, kicking out by his parents, lack of education, deprivation of access to higher education, born sick, born handicapped...), in situations of distress.

But what is wrong, and what is disgusting for a child who is going to suffer this, is that this obligation works the other way around, and between brothers and sisters!

That is to say, when the parents, brothers, sisters, are in distress, have trouble paying their rents, retirement homes, are in need..., the laws impose, often on court decisions, on children, brothers and sisters (up to their spouses, in the event of marriage), to help, to house, to give food, money, to pay their rents, retirement, retirement homes...

This is often imposed by court decision, that is to say that the parents, brothers, sue their relatives, their children, their parents...

If the children, who never asked to be born, (worse still, were born or made sick/disabled for example) had bad parents, brothers, sisters (wicked, abusive, tortured, are very poor.. .), are obliged to help these people who gave them life (a poisoned gift in these cases), how will they react? I've seen some who have CTB because of it, I've lost friends because of it!

If the children, brothers, sisters, do not respect this obligation, they are arrested, imprisoned, their property seized by the bailiffs, their wages, income also seized...

You should know that the children have been forced to manage to earn a living (with suffering, abandonment by their relatives, parents...) and that their parents, brothers, sisters, come to sue them to claim money. , food... without reciprocity, or politeness... it's purely and simply disgusting! It's extortion, imposed by law, in the name of respect for the family!

It is often said, in society, that we must respect and owe all due to parents (and their families) because they gave us life, even if they are the worst villains on the planet, and that life is sacred (CTB is cowardly according to society, for example), so this obligation to help loved ones, and especially their parents, is the ultimate blow!

In addition, there are parents (as well as brothers and sisters) who take advantage of procreating and having lots of children to take advantage of the country's public aid (France for example), without working, to buy luxury. , to go on trips...!

Then, when their children are grown up, these same parents purposely ruin themselves by telling themselves that they can sue their children, to give them more money, food, pay for their accommodation... and still enjoy their lives. buy luxury, go on trips... on the backs of their loved ones and their children! And the brothers and sisters also take the opportunity to take advantage of this racketeering between relatives.

The worst is that this racket affects the couple, when the people are married, the spouse being obliged to help by law and by court order! This often ends up in divorces! Or how to allow parents, brothers and sisters to destroy couples! The person then, become single, will assume this racket alone!

I hate countries that defend families at all costs while depriving children of their individual freedoms, knowing that no one asked to be born or chose their parents, families...

I would have liked countries to have laws for, on the contrary, a license to procreate, a license to be parents, that is to say to allow children to be born, provided that their income, education, behavior, health , ... be exemplary, and not oppressive for their children, and to allow them to succeed in their lives, instead of being pushed to CTB! It is clear that some people should never have children! But if we talk about eugenics, we are systematically called extremist, crazy!

I am ashamed for my country! Everything goes wrong in this country!
 
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disabledlife

disabledlife

Arcanist
Jun 5, 2020
451
If this happens to you, would you crave CTB?
 
nopride86

nopride86

Student
Mar 16, 2022
135
This is where I'm at right now too.

I don't think there's as severe laws where I live like you describe, but there are some states (I live in the US) that have "filial laws" which is similar. But the worst of it is the societal pressure and the internalized (often groomed) guilt for not supporting parents who refuse to take care of themselves with the knowledge that they can place the burden on you.

Do I think elderly "abandonment" is sad? Yes. But it's also sometimes a necessity when it becomes a them vs you situation. And for most of my life, I've known that to avoid that situation, I'll have to CTB. If my mom was dead, or even just a competent human being, I would have turned out a lot differently. She's a parasite and a poison that I will have to deal with for the rest of my life (until I take the next step to end it).

You don't deserve this and I'm so sorry that you're here like me.
 

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