nigelhernandez
Experienced
- Apr 14, 2020
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I'm a 21yr old man and had a tinder account for 6 months but closed it cause I got few to no responses. The only ones I did, I'm pretty sure were bots
You could try Bumble. I thought that was supposed to be a dating app where women send the messages and men receive... Online dating is the most straightforward way, but probably doesn't work for 50% or more of men. Trying social events, Meetups, hobby groups would probably be more productive.
I see. Bumble's the same... I doubt most of us here would be the best people to ask for dating advice. I think getting to know others (non-dating) forums or on social media would be more helpful, or having a job where you meet people. It seems to me like most sexual/romantic success is chance, or at least a lot of it. The more people of the opposite sex you know casually the more the probability goes up.
Date me Baby Bear!!!!No. Just look on youtube for tinder experiment by the channel ItsAGundam, its hilarious.
Better join a gym and start lifting weights with a bit cardio, when the corona stuff is gone. You will probably have more success.
Do we have a love connection??? <3 <3Date me Baby Bear!!!!
A lot of men, physically at least, don't really put any effort into their appearance, at least in the US. So, if you have a nice and relatively confident personality, and look like you put some effort into how you look, you should do fine as a man. An average guy really can do well enough, as I've seen many times--some of the hotter women I've seen online and off (my type at least), are often paired with average looking dudes. A lot of that is just chance, of course, what social circle you're in, who you know, and shared interests. But there's an entire industry out there to convince men otherwise. So don't feel hopeless. It should be stated that having high standards and expectations, male or female, will rarely help either. This also applies to friendship.Yes they will. But I guess it's harder to assume because how dating is potrayed nowadays but alot of women don't have extremely high standards. Average is and will be good enough
It seems you have to be an Instagram model to use these sites and apps. Think about it have you ever seen an average or ugly person in their advertisements? I regularly see this ad on tv in the U.K and Ireland. This woman is like in the top .01% looks wise. And what's funny is they are trying to market a site to millions of average or below average looking adults who don't look or talk like that.
Does Tinder work for average looking men?
That's greatSeems to be a lot of negative stuff on this thread. That's totally contrary to my experience. I am a young white male and I consider myself to definitely be below average in terms of looks. Or as I like to put it: I'm fucking ugly lol.
Yet my tinder experience has been rather good. I initially installed it as a joke - some friends had it and I thought I'd try to join in. So really all I did was make jokes - never took it seriously one bit. But through it all I was able to get some dates setup and I found my current girlfriend through tinder.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that while looks do play a part obviously, personality is also important.
Just trying to get some positivity in here
Seems to be a lot of negative stuff on this thread. That's totally contrary to my experience. I am a young white male and I consider myself to definitely be below average in terms of looks. Or as I like to put it: I'm fucking ugly lol.
Yet my tinder experience has been rather good. I initially installed it as a joke - some friends had it and I thought I'd try to join in. So really all I did was make jokes - never took it seriously one bit. But through it all I was able to get some dates setup and I found my current girlfriend through tinder.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that while looks do play a part obviously, personality is also important.
Just trying to get some positivity in here