Does suicide worth the emotional trouble?

[aspx]

Does commiting suicide worth all the trouble that your family would go through? I mean, there would be a lot of people judging my parents, and of course I don't want it.
I'm seriously considering it once again. I've realized that life is a trap, I can't live without communicating with other humans. Suicide seems the only option for me now.
(Sorry about the title, I wanted to make something more compact so I removed some words).

 

[DrownedOctopus]

That really would have a case by case answer. For some people it doesn't matter, for others it's what is keeping them alive.
You have to decide for yourself if you care enough about the impact your committing suicide will have on your family to stay alive.
Essentially the question I think you need to ask is:
Is their happiness worth more to you than your need to end your suffering?

 

[Deltrus]

My parents would be very sad. My brother too. I have to at least stay alive until my brother finishes university and gets a job. Suiciding now would be such terrible timing for him, he wouldn't be able to focus most likely and his career would be ruined.

I think timing is everything. In my case I think I can last 2 years, maybe 3 if I really push myself. My brother will take 2 years to finish university, while my parents have no major events for the forseeable future.

I also want to rent an apartment so my parents are more used to being away from me, and so they don't have to find my body. That will take a year.


So overall just do everything you can do to lessen the blow to people you know, within the timeframe available.

Unless you think you can avoid suicide altogether? Or wait until your parents die? If you can do that, it would be best.

 

[Memento Mori]

i don't know :(

most important is to at least ctb while thinking rational, like don't leave angry death notes others would re-read the next few decades and interprete...don't hang yourself into the shower so that your family never forgets that picture and has to move out from the house to be able to take a shower...and don't bring others in danger or guilt for your death (like car driver)

I can't live without communicating with other humans. Suicide seems the only option for me now

i don't get how you came to that conclusion.

i feel the same, i guess some day i'll get some cats. lol
finding a friend is too complicated and i have no use for those other "friends" u just know for being socialised with others. only thing i share with others nowadays is consuming drugs. thats it

 

[aspx]

Is their happiness worth more to you than your need to end your suffering?

This really got me thinking and kinda solved some of my questions, thanks.

 

[dandan]

I don't know, I'm trying to find how to develop a good attitude to live life.
But I'm struggling

Can anyone help?

Is their happiness worth more to you than your need to end your suffering?

They ain't happy, my family has been sad because of my condition, maybe the author of this post can understand...

 

[aspx]

I don't know, I'm trying to find how to develop a good attitude to live life.
But I'm struggling

Can anyone help?

What kind of good attitude?

 

[dandan]

What kind of good attitude?

Like forgiving past mistakes and great sense of humor plus willingness to accept life as is, which is the hardest part. Yeah, this...

 

[Eily]

Does commiting suicide worth all the trouble that your family would go through? I mean, there would be a lot of people judging my parents, and of course I don't want it.
I'm seriously considering it once again. I've realized that life is a trap, I can't live without communicating with other humans. Suicide seems the only option for me now.
(Sorry about the title, I wanted to make something more compact so I removed some words).

The thing is, it actually doesn't matter what they think. Now, I know that sounds impossible and yeah, you'll feel bad. But some people CANNOT live any longer with the pain they are dealing with. Think of it this way: family doesn't want to be emotionally tormented by the death of a family member. So it's okay for the victim to be tormented by their mental and/or physical pain so the family can live happily ever after?

One thing people need to understand is death is inevitable. Whether you die now or later, it's going to happen and family/friends will be sad no matter what. It's out of their control. They can't stop death whether it's natural causes or self-inflicted.

Ultimately, only you know your limits. Think about yourself. Don't worry about others. If you can handle being alive, be alive! If you can't, only you have the right to end it and you don't owe anyone anything.