Venting does anyone feel like life is a bit too extreme?

[Bot]

im a kinda sensitive person and life feels like its just tooo extreme, like really too extreme,..
sadly the bad feelings seem to be the strongest one i feel, i wish i did ctb during my puberty while stuff was manageable and not so messed up and painful like now.. i really hate this life.. why am i even still alive? i don't get it.. i wish i wasn't that anxious and obsessive about planing and decision making..

 

[Adamsnolife]

Sorry about your life. It's not fair the life we live in.

It's extremely badmy life. Can't wait to leave it all behind

 

[fox_wannabe]

Life in itself is something only in our experience and does not exist as such in itself. Sorry I just felt I needed to say that. It is subjective, maybe life is not for fragile or sensitive, like myself. Feeling cold is enough to make me rethink whether I should be or not. Because cold makes me suffer, and It is something I will surely experience more and more as winter comes, than scorching heat will come.

Damn It would be so much easier If it did not ever happen.

 

[FuneralCry]

Yes, of course. After all life is very horrible, there is unlimited potential for suffering. If we think we have it bad now it can get so much worse. I feel like anyone who sees life as being positive overall are very delusional. I see it as better to never be born in the first place as all of our problems are caused by the fact that we exist. For me, death is the only way to be free from it all, only then will we be at peace.

 

[YourNeighbor]

Some can successfully set their life up to be quite simple (I don't mean by being wealthy--quite the opposite). It may take some effort up front, depending on the situation, but it is possible.

 

[DeathBecomesMe_2021]

My life's the opposite. It's incredibly boring. I'm pretty sure there's no one on this planet who'd want to trade places with me. Even though I'd give my life to someone who really wants to live, they still wouldn't want my life.

 

[looseye]

To me life doesn't seem extreme, it just feels like I was born flawed on factory settings

 

[Niirvana]

Sorry about your life. It's not fair the life we live in.

It's extremely badmy life. Can't wait to leave it all behind

I don't know what's going on but lately I feel a lot more anxious to commit ctb. Thinking that I would have to wait 3 years (for the rent) makes me very nervous, I would like to die sooner! I can't wait that long!

 

[$nowLeopard]

Life in itself is something only in our experience and does not exist as such in itself. Sorry I just felt I needed to say that. It is subjective, maybe life is not for fragile or sensitive, like myself. Feeling cold is enough to make me rethink whether I should be or not. Because cold makes me suffer, and It is something I will surely experience more and more as winter comes, than scorching heat will come.

Damn It would be so much easier If it did not ever happen.

Maybe you have Hypothyroidism?

 

[Sprite_Geist]

No not life itself, but rather my experiences with other individuals seem very extreme. It is difficult to get along with others when you can be judged no matter how you behave, and even if you attempt to maintain a "positive" outlook. If a person prefers solitude they are viewed as ignorant, but if a person is more outgoing then they are viewed as bothersome.

 

[canna2]

Nobody will admit to the notion that life is extreme until they've experienced dying. Then they will agree with you.

 

[Beeper]

im a kinda sensitive person and life feels like its just tooo extreme, like really too extreme,..
sadly the bad feelings seem to be the strongest one i feel, i wish i did ctb during my puberty while stuff was manageable and not so messed up and painful like now.. i really hate this life.. why am i even still alive? i don't get it.. i wish i wasn't that anxious and obsessive about planing and decision making..

I also feel this way.

Life is more complicated than it needs to be. There is too much pressure for people to be doing something all the time.

Forcing people to work to survive a life they didn't ask for strikes me as wrong.

 

[canna2]

I also feel this way.

Life is more complicated than it needs to be. There is too much pressure for people to be doing something all the time.

Forcing people to work to survive a life they didn't ask for strikes me as wrong.

100%

It's f *** crazy tbh but nobody will admit that because people are scared of everybodys opinion.
People are a herd animal. Don't forget that.

Now look at pregant women. They are the craziest of them all. Wolves in sheep clothing.

 

[Fadeawaaaay]

Being that I only want to lay on my couch and hide from the world, yes everything out there seems to be extreme…

 

[Callie Arcale]

Life is nasty and brutish and I am not equipped to deal with it.

 

[canna2]

Life is nasty and brutish and I am not equipped to deal with it.

Not everyone is.. It's all in the DNA / our genes ... Thats the deciding factor if you can make it in life or not.

And funnily enough, if you are stupid enough you can make it too (survive at least until you're on the deathbed)

 

[tryingtoescape]

Life feels so, so extreme and horribly cruel and terrifying.

 

[nerve]

Horse_ebooks put it best imo

 

[Zzzzz]

I also feel this way.

Life is more complicated than it needs to be. There is too much pressure for people to be doing something all the time.

Forcing people to work to survive a life they didn't ask for strikes me as wrong.

Force them to work, and force them to live. Sounds like slavery to me.

 

[canna2]

Force them to work, and force them to live. Sounds like slavery to me.

Making babies is cruel and unforgivable

I have 0 sympathy towards pregnant women. They don't deserve to live tbh

 

[ikadasui]

Absolutely. I failed in elementary and it's been a downward spiral ever since. I never should of been born and it's clear as day I'm headed toward homelessness eventually

 

[canna2]

No not life itself, but rather my experiences with other individuals seem very extreme. It is difficult to get along with others when you can be judged no matter how you behave, and even if you attempt to maintain a "positive" outlook. If a person prefers solitude they are viewed as ignorant, but if a person is more outgoing then they are viewed as bothersome.

When you understand what peoples judgements are on a deep level you will ignore them

 

[Green Destiny]

This day and age is most definitely too extreme. There's so much bad in modern life it completely topples whatever minuscule good there is a dozen times over. This world is heading towards one bad event after the next be it from the environment dying or thousands of people ready to tear each other to pieces. My generation and the next are supposed to make THIS work??? It's completely unrealistic and impossible. It's swapping deck chairs on the Titanic.

 

[Darkover]

emotion runs deep it is a very strong fear i sense impending doom soon to be nothing for all time

 

[forgotten15]

I understand how you feel.
I am a sensitive person as well and I do feel that this life is very hard and cruel. It is very difficult going through it day by day, seeing and feeling so much suffering. I often think that life is the real hell, no matter where we go after we die, can't be worse than this.

 

[Silenos]

im a kinda sensitive person and life feels like its just tooo extreme, like really too extreme,..

Hard relate. I can't and will never be able to keep up with all the bullshit. Sorry to hear you feel this way too.

 

[Sprite_Geist]

When you understand what peoples judgements are on a deep level you will ignore them

I think that I do understand their judgements which is why I sometimes get angry at them, because they can be ill-founded. I used to be good at ignoring their behaviour too; in fact I originally was care free - mostly. However over the course of the last 3-4 years this behaviour has increased so much to the point that it is now difficult to avoid it. It is like a fly that buzzes around your head constantly.

 

[Samsara]

YES. I've been continuously crying over something absolutely stupid for the last 2 days. Me and my BPD socio-emotional sensitivity are not meant for this world lol