Cashewmilk
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- Mar 10, 2020
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Do you have a parent, probably a mother, who just seems like she loves yelling and can't go a day without yelling or frowning, or being toxic and hateful? Why are parents like this if they claim to love their kids so much? My mom has been yelling at me and my older sister since we were tiny babies, and we learned how to yell like her and she *hates* it so much, but totally denies being the major influence. She forgets that she's the leader here and that we're actually her kids, she treats us like we're her peers. She had a baby when I was 11 and she was 39 and doted on her and made sure to never yell at her, and my younger sister turned out flawless pretty much. She still never yells at my younger sister who is now 21, but she screamed her fucking head off to me and my sister when we were toddlers. Basically she screwed up and failed the first 2 times, and nailed parenting on the third try. The only decent thing about my mom is that she's never kicked us out and abandoned us... I know in some western cultures it's really common to abandon your child if they do something bad (like drugs or illegal activities), but my mom has always told us that she's never wanted anything more in her life than to be a mom, and deep down she has a maternal bond... she's an antinatalists dream, she feels guilty and feels a duty to be there for her kids no matter what, forever. When she felt disrespected, she would yell "I'm a MOTHER!" As if being a mother is some big accomplishment. I feel both lucky and cursed.
Basically the way I live my life is that I endure constant emotional abuse in exchange for a stable home. People tell me I should get out of my abusive home but the alternative isn't better at all, it's homelessness, or prostitution, or worse. I'd much rather stay in the luxury of my original place and endure screaming women from time to time. Unfortunately it won't last forever. Hopefully I can find a way to ctb before I'm in deep shit. Anyways, anyone else have constant yelling parents? I know there's a ton of young people on here who still live with their parents hehe.
Basically the way I live my life is that I endure constant emotional abuse in exchange for a stable home. People tell me I should get out of my abusive home but the alternative isn't better at all, it's homelessness, or prostitution, or worse. I'd much rather stay in the luxury of my original place and endure screaming women from time to time. Unfortunately it won't last forever. Hopefully I can find a way to ctb before I'm in deep shit. Anyways, anyone else have constant yelling parents? I know there's a ton of young people on here who still live with their parents hehe.
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