HopingOnaMiracle
Experienced
- Mar 8, 2024
- 279
Hey everyone. Short question here. Do you plan to write a suicide note? And what would you write?
I like this approach. I'm struggling with the drafts of mine - one to my mum and another to everyone else collectively, explaining my reasons which many of my friends won't know and will incorrectly attribute to mental illness otherwise.I'm currently writing two, one for my wife, and another one for my family. The goal is to say goodbye, briefly explaining the reasons for this act (it has to be relevant without being too melodramatic or pathetic), while eradicating in advance any possible irrational guilt on their part. I will also add to this letter some logistical details to be observed.
Indeed, I think it's important for the close ones to understand why, if you are able to articulate it, which is not always the case (It can be difficult to describe what has all the trappings of a psychosis), it would probably help them to accept in the long term. Hopefully it will be enough to not disturb them too much for too long.I like this approach. I'm struggling with the drafts of mine - one to my mum and another to everyone else collectively, explaining my reasons which many of my friends won't know and will incorrectly attribute to mental illness otherwise.
It's important to me that people know the whole context of my decision, but as you said I don't want it to be melodramatic so I'm struggling to get the tone right and keep it brief while still covering everything. Also preventing irrational guilt is a huuuge driver of my note to my mum, as well as logistical/practical considerations. How long roughly will yours be?