Discussion Do you think youre ugly?

[Baskol1]

Do you think you look ugly? If yes, why do you think youre ugly? Did many people say youre ugly, or is it just you? Or were you actually bullied for your appearance?

 

[GinaIsReady]

@Baskol1: are you bored? I'm wondering why you would ask these questions because they are kinda …. useless

 

[a_strange_day]

@Baskol1: are you bored? I'm wondering why you would ask these questions because they are kinda …. useless

I think he is an undercover psychiatrist collecting a maximum of data for a very detailed study on mental illnesses :)

 

[oopswronglife]

@Baskol1: are you bored? I'm wondering why you would ask these questions because they are kinda …. useless

He/she has said before they are on the autistic spectrum so I have assumed its to better understand people through detailed and direct questions. Always better to assume there is a valid reason than to dismiss and belittle.

 

[Baskol1]

No but im interested in psychology.
I personally think i look average, or slightly above average.

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

Do you think you look ugly? If yes, why do you think youre ugly? Did many people say youre ugly, or is it just you? Or were you actually bullied for your appearance?

Yes … It used to piss me off, but now since I plan on CTB it doesn't matter anymore.

 

[Dawn0071111]

I used to think I was on the outside... but took work & became a nice looking lady. Now I see I'm a ugly person on the INSIDE... I want death because of this

 

[k75]

No. I have a lot of problems, but that's not one of them. That's why the scars and disfigurement on my body bother me so much. I used to be ok, and now I'm not ok at all.

 

[lostangel]

Sometimes I think I am ''okay'' looking not be a prick. But no girl has ever shown an interest, people have made fun of my looks and called me names. So now I am convinced I am :/.

 

[iiii5555]

I think the very notion of "beauty" is something extremely ugly.

 

[21Neberg]

I do think I'm ugly. In fact, I avoid looking in the mirror as much as I can. I just hate myself. I was bullied a lot for it, and it's had a huge impact on me. As I grew older I started to care more for my appearance, yet now when someone says I'm not as ugly as I think I simply resist it with every muscle in my body.

 

[wanttodie]

I do think I'm ugly my body is ugly to

 

[ReverendGreen]

Yes.
I have a combination of unattractive facial features that do not work well together at all on top of an anorexic ogre's body. Sometime I'll think I'm alright but then I'll see myself in a photo or video and remember how gross I actually am.

 

[andy69]

Everyone else seems to act toward me like I am ugly. The answer is yes.

 

[Rocksandsand]

I used to think I was average. Seroquel made me gain 65kg (a person-worth) of weight though, and now I feel hideous. I hate looking in mirrors or being around people, particularly when they knew me when I was thinner.

 

[YukiFox]

Yes. For all my life I consider myself ugly, and I remember that one of the worst arguments with my mom was when she called me 'handsome' and comment 'You'll attract a lot of girls for sure'. (The offense was more related to my sexuality, but whatever)
I always pissed me off inside when anyone called me pretty.
The main reasons to defend my perception of personal ugliness are: 1.Strabismus and 2. A little overweight. That body hating are one of my premises to defend my gender dysphoria and want the become a trans woman, to feel beautiful since as a male I don't convince that I'm handsome (Or at least average) b

 

[sleepless]

I truly think it's best to look average, and have a decent, genuine personality. Looking too good can be a curse. Shallow people may like you, maybe even briefly, but you also get to deal with people who are raged with envy and jealousy.

I feel when you look too good, people often have some sort of an expectation when they meet you. So if you let them down in the way they perceive you, maybe in your behavoir, personality or ability, they tend to have harsher views of your imperfections.

 

[Futility]

I spent the longest time believing I was ugly, it turns out I only thought I was because people had repeated that my entire life until I believed it. I was also a bit of an ugly duckling I guess?

I had to change my entire life, new friends, new family, new surroundings just to stop the old negative echo chamber from beating me down every day.
Now I can see myself as equal to everyone else I see, I no longer hide in baggy clothes and trying to be invisible, I appreciate my own body now, I wouldn't call myself beautiful, but I'm at a happy average with a nice ass.
My own perception of myself was probably my worst enemy for far too long.

 

[Luchs]

Do you think you look ugly? If yes, why do you think youre ugly? Did many people say youre ugly, or is it just you? Or were you actually bullied for your appearance?

I was told that I'm ugly a lot while in school, though that was just typical cruel teen-bullying. Later in live I've been told that I'm actually quite attractive, but I don't really care about that. I don't want a relationship, because my mental problems would probably emotionally hurt my partner and I don't want that to happen.

 

[Unlucked]

I'm ugly. My jaw is way too big and asymmetrical due to TMJ messing with its development. I just look really abnormal.

 

[blanketyblk]

Yep, been told i'm unattractive most of my life. got to the point now, i just don't care.

 

[Kringle's Curse]

I've always been told that I'm cute or sexy, but my self-esteem is shit so I certainly don't see it. All I see is human trash.

 

[Conflicted Cat]

I used to look terrible, hated the way I looked and was bullied for it. But as I got older, my appearance changed, and I grew facial hair. Stache, beard, sideburns, that all sorta link, and I love it. Though that's just what I think. If anything happened to my facial hair, I would kill everyone in my vicinity.

 

[Baskol1]

I dot think im ugly, but sometimes i dont feel looking masculine enough. Altough im not really effeminate looking.

 

[azucaramargo]

W

No but im interested in psychology.
I personally think i look average, or slightly above average.

We all know you're beautiful, Baskol1.

 

[Wayfaerer]

Depends on how well I'm keeping up with my hygiene at the moment.

 

[Frank]

I'm not ugly but simply unatractive due to being overweight

 

[DownFall]

Balding at my age tore through my already bad self-esteem, so yes I do consider myself ugly.

 

[Baskol1]

W
We all know you're beautiful, Baskol1.

Well many gay guys think im cute. So yes im probably not that ugly.

 

[First loss]

Both ugly and short.