Discussion Do You Talk A Lot?

[sunny.sativa]

I've always been a chatterbox.
I'm introverted, but I can sure spit some stories around the few people I love. Recently, I officially confirmed the fact that people are shit and will do all in their will to use everything I say against me. I knew it but had some hope left. Not now. I trust no one, anymore.
The internet gives me all the outlet I need.
I refuse to make friends, they turn and betray. (In my experience, but I hope you have amazing friends!) No matter what I say or do, everyone will find some way to fuck me over with it so there's really no reason to speak unless absolutely necessary, now. With my career, I have to speak often, but only to authorities, which I can't be friendly with anyways, so that helps.
It feels good. It feels good to turn my back on everyone. I've got my back, fuck people.
What about you? Do you make friends easily? Do you enjoy conversing with strangers? What're your thoughts on this?

 

[BPD Barbie]

When I'm nervous I talk a lot, about random subjects or nothing in particular. It's very clear that I'm nervous because it's just verbal vomit.

 

[Backwoodsqueer]

Nope! I often get told that people forget I'm even in the room because I'm so quiet.

 

[zeroambition]

No.. I've given people a fright when I decide to say something because they forgot I was there lmao!

 

[Mr2005]

No

 

[PoisonedJuliet]

When I'm manic, yes. I'm always afraid my friends get annoyed with me if I talk too much or too fast. I am also one of the most random people ever. I switch subjects while talking all the time. Sometimes I just blurt out random things

 

[a_strange_day]

No. I used to talk a lot when I still had social obligations, mostly in order to hide who I really am. Now I can spend days without talking to anyoneI and I don't miss it, it's exhausting to always have to pretend.

 

[Soulless_Angel]

If I have had a few rums, I talk a lot... like non stop, if I am highly anxious and stress, I tend to ramble about shit, ,
other wise unless it's to my husband I struggle with conversation or talking.

 

[sunny.sativa]

No

why not, then?

 

[your pathologist]

When im manic yes
Like this i barely can find the words to speak

 

[Generic]

I have to consciously stop myself from rambling random crap all the time.

 

[Majin K.]

I hate talking with others irl. Even around friends I sometimes can't bring myself to say the things I want to say or I'm so silent that they end up complaining.

 

[TeenIdle]

Not really... Having avoidant personality disorder/social anxiety and being an introvert is a bad combination. Talking for me is a chore and mentally very tiring. I wish I wasn't like this because I'm from a country where every one is so extroverted and loud and it also impedes me from living life, but my brain is fucked...

 

[Deleted member 1465]

I like the term word salad
I go from one extreme to the other. I can be very taciturn but get me going on something that engages me and I can hold a good conversation. I don't believe I talk to much though because I try my best to listen too. I'm crap at listening really though.
I type too much on here though.

 

[Despondent]

It depends -- if it's around people I love or am at least comfortable/familiar with, I am. Other than that, I get really nervous when I talk to others. Sometimes I'm quiet, sometimes my nerves take over and I ramble

 

[Myforevercharlie]

I talk so much, i scare people away

 

[Marchioness]

I'm an extrovert but I think I try to listen more than I run my mouth. I know I'm too TMI on Facebook. I deactivated again because I tried to confide in people there but they don't react well as people here. You either get crickets or canned answers and I'm tired of it.

 

[TAW122]

Not really, but depends on the topic and situation. If it is with people I am more familiar with and I know what I wish to say, then yes, I do speak a bit more. Otherwise, I oftenly remain quiet as I don't have anything good to say.

 

[Finis Autem Spero]

Generally no. I find more enjoyment in listening and observing. Get a few drinks in me or talk to me about something I love then I won't shut up!

When it comes to communicating in text, not only do I tend to be more loquacious and verbose, but I have a considerably greater written vocabulary than I do spoken. It's fun to play with words, I just don't have the confidence to do so verbally.

 

[lostangel]

I've always been a chatterbox.
I'm introverted, but I can sure spit some stories around the few people I love. Recently, I officially confirmed the fact that people are shit and will do all in their will to use everything I say against me. I knew it but had some hope left. Not now. I trust no one, anymore.
The internet gives me all the outlet I need.
I refuse to make friends, they turn and betray. (In my experience, but I hope you have amazing friends!) No matter what I say or do, everyone will find some way to fuck me over with it so there's really no reason to speak unless absolutely necessary, now. With my career, I have to speak often, but only to authorities, which I can't be friendly with anyways, so that helps.
It feels good. It feels good to turn my back on everyone. I've got my back, fuck people.
What about you? Do you make friends easily? Do you enjoy conversing with strangers? What're your thoughts on this?

I haven't seen you're name in a while. I love your profile pic. It cracks me up haha. To answer your question. I don't talk to anyone really. I talk in my head constantly but rarely out loud. I don't have friends they all turn fake and what's the point of having friends anyway? I've never really had anyone anyway.

 

[ScorpiusDragon]

I can be quite talkative when I'm with people I consider close. But for the most part, I'm quiet and shy.

 

[selfhater]

im always silent and when i talk i shut up myself cuz ew i hate me i don't wanna hear me

 

[throwaway_2620]

Personally, I'm a private person who keeps to himself most of the time.

 

[departing]

I can be extremely social but I have no friends so I rarely speak. I essentially only leave the house for my psychiatrist or therapist.

 

[sunny.sativa]

I haven't seen you're name in a while. I love your profile pic. It cracks me up haha. To answer your question. I don't talk to anyone really. I talk in my head constantly but rarely out loud. I don't have friends they all turn fake and what's the point of having friends anyway? I've never really had anyone anyway.

I don't have friends for this same reason.. your mindset is relatable, on the idea that friends leave, anyways.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

Im afraid i talk very very much...

 

[Oyoy]

I'm speachless!

 

[mediocre]

No I can go days without speaking a word. I have voice problems now from not speaking it hurts to speak so I don't bother anymore...

 

[terry_a_davis]

not really, i talk no more than most people.

 

[Remember to forget]

I think it depends where you are and what you are doing. My biggist hate it bumping into people out and about, having to stand there and talk shit to someone you don't really like, you just happen to know them.
Work I can talk a lot because I feel comfortable and I need to be authorative.
As a person, to friends, family then I can jabber on a little but try to listen more.
I did go through a time when I pretty much kept speaking to a minimum. I was quiet, shy and hated people looking at me but I don't give a shit anymore.