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sweetdrowning

sweetdrowning

living ghost
Jan 2, 2026
63
I'm just curious how many of you are logging in and out each time, clearing your history, or using private browsers. Personally I don't really make an effort to... I hide my entire identity here but on my computer its just logged in all the time.. I leave the tab open and go away from my pc because maybe the person I live with will see it. I think its something inside me that wants to believe I'm still cared about. I dunno.. Just curious.
 
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otium

otium

looking for the peace i crave
Aug 10, 2025
42
I personally use private browser, if if i do ctb, i would delete all passwords and accounts to this site.
 
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Spite

Spite

Nil Desperandum.
Aug 20, 2025
196
Yes, I do make efforts to conceal my use of this site as it is very taboo and I risk a lot if the people in my life were to find out I'm here.

I always use this site on a private browser separate from my main browser. I have very few people in my life both online and IRL, but nobody knows I post here. My presence here is kept a secret from my family and other online penpals.

If I were to CTB however, I personally don't mind if people found out I had an account here.
 
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Laurentj

Laurentj

Student of the waning waxen
Sep 13, 2023
27
yea but not much
 
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kufajoy

kufajoy

Misfit
Nov 6, 2025
72
I use Samsung secure folder with a pass that no one can guess. I really don't want people find about what I gone through or this site at all after my death.
 
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