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Currently, I don't really have sexual problems anymore. But I had diverse. I wrote a guide how I fixed my issues as a man.
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I think this thread might be gold for some.
I was intimate with a woman at the beginning of this year. It was really an amazing time for me. She was very much into sex. And to that time I had mild issues with erectile dysfunction. I talked about it with her very openly and that it makes me insecure. However, when we became intimate I had non of these issues. We did a lot of foreplay and we sadly had no sex. But I had no issues when we did what we did.
She told me her experience how it is when an old man a gynecologist inspects her and that it is a very strange feeling when he is down there between her legs. She never became wet though under these circumstances.
I had diverse sexual issues. The absolute worst ones with lamotrigine. Just to find out after a long time it basically has no effect at all and only side effects. For women I read it can be the absolute opposite. And increases their sexual pleasure a lot. But me I barely felt anything anymore. Which was a huge burden in my age.
I think I have the tendency to overshare. I do this in my self-help group. But I never said anything about my sexuality there. But behind closed dorse with therapists I lost the shame. And the woman with whom I got intimate was astounded how I can talk this openly about my sexual issues with other women. Most of my therapists were female.
In my experience it is easier to talk about this with women. There was a male therapist who became very awkward.
Maybe I am the awkward person. However, I concluded it is better to talk with them to find a solution for the issues instead of suffering in silence. But I realized none of these people could actually help me. I had to do research on the internet on my own to fix the issue eventually.
And as you can read in the linked thread Busp and trazodone fixed all my issues. And I am quite happy about it, I can also recommend wellbutrin.

How I got rid of sexual side-effects caused by my mental health medication
I always thought I would never talk about that on here. Too personal but I ran out of topics and I think my advice is pretty good. I take antidepressants and antipsychotics. I spend some years without antipsychotics in extreme mental pain because I did not want to have erectile...

I think this thread might be gold for some.
I was intimate with a woman at the beginning of this year. It was really an amazing time for me. She was very much into sex. And to that time I had mild issues with erectile dysfunction. I talked about it with her very openly and that it makes me insecure. However, when we became intimate I had non of these issues. We did a lot of foreplay and we sadly had no sex. But I had no issues when we did what we did.
She told me her experience how it is when an old man a gynecologist inspects her and that it is a very strange feeling when he is down there between her legs. She never became wet though under these circumstances.
I had diverse sexual issues. The absolute worst ones with lamotrigine. Just to find out after a long time it basically has no effect at all and only side effects. For women I read it can be the absolute opposite. And increases their sexual pleasure a lot. But me I barely felt anything anymore. Which was a huge burden in my age.
I think I have the tendency to overshare. I do this in my self-help group. But I never said anything about my sexuality there. But behind closed dorse with therapists I lost the shame. And the woman with whom I got intimate was astounded how I can talk this openly about my sexual issues with other women. Most of my therapists were female.
In my experience it is easier to talk about this with women. There was a male therapist who became very awkward.
Maybe I am the awkward person. However, I concluded it is better to talk with them to find a solution for the issues instead of suffering in silence. But I realized none of these people could actually help me. I had to do research on the internet on my own to fix the issue eventually.
And as you can read in the linked thread Busp and trazodone fixed all my issues. And I am quite happy about it, I can also recommend wellbutrin.