I do look at other people, and how they glow, and look healthy, happy, a natural smile.
It's the complete opposite for me.
Same. I look at some people and they look healthy and light as butterflies, and smile, well, I don't even have a reason to smile, i know comparing yourself to people isn't right but it's inevitable when you feel like you weigh a ton with every step and it's like you're going to pass out just taking a walk.
One of the girls, pretty, with thick hair and a smile of being genuinely happy, was telling things about medicine and travels, i don't know, i feel so far from a person who can act freely.
So many years of isolation have made me look bad, im losing that little motivation i used to take care of myself a little bit.
I always feel in social settings it's a game of naming your credentials or boasting about all the dumb shit that you do . I feel like I used to know how to make my life sound interesting which I guess it was a little more exciting when I had a lifestyle
That's right, no matter what country you live in, the same talks about what you have done, what you do, money, cars, properties, inheritances, travels, the shit you bought, careers, relations, what people you hang out with... so basically people who don't have a lifestyle are out.
almost do nothing everyday (as a result of my existential depression, mostly)
I'm in 30's. I've spent years doing nothing and when i started to get active i got an injury and went back to sedentary, it seems like my life is destined to not be able to do anything but rot in a flat with no good experiences at all.
They don't seem to have depression (I think) or at the very least they aren't having suicidal thoughts like I have sometimes. They have good families, good friends of their own, they can drive, they work, they're free, they're happy... they are accomplishing things while I'm wasting away.
Right, people don't seem to be sad or fucked up all the time, but in my case it's like having a black cloud hanging over me, constant problems. Thats why i feel like cursed or something.
It's like no matter what I do, I'm just not good enough
Maybe you're good at other things you haven't figured out. Every person is different.