thetwilightzone
Specialist
- Jul 14, 2018
- 307
It's a controversial question with confusing answers. Some people say yes and others say no.
I think they do matter but not in the ways people think they do. You can get definitely get away with more bad things if you're attractive as a man or woman in relationships and in the workplace. However, you have to have some reasonable common sense, politeness etc otherwise you'll get fired, people will hate you.
So looks I think lower the bar for unacceptable behaviour to a certain point.
I know a lot of people say "If looks are so important, why do good looking rich people kill themselves?" I say that obviously looks won't make you happy but they'll take away stresses like money, No one would say just because rich people kill themselves that means money isn't important. It would be ridiculous and it's the same for appearance.
I think they do matter but not in the ways people think they do. You can get definitely get away with more bad things if you're attractive as a man or woman in relationships and in the workplace. However, you have to have some reasonable common sense, politeness etc otherwise you'll get fired, people will hate you.
So looks I think lower the bar for unacceptable behaviour to a certain point.
I know a lot of people say "If looks are so important, why do good looking rich people kill themselves?" I say that obviously looks won't make you happy but they'll take away stresses like money, No one would say just because rich people kill themselves that means money isn't important. It would be ridiculous and it's the same for appearance.