Yes but interpretation of beauty varies wildly. Not being cliché. A lot of really attractive guys like big women or abnormalities, or whatever someone may consider unattractive. I think the pressure on attractive people to be with other conventionally attractive people leads to this discussion, because I've heard guys get shit on before for their personal taste. I think that is a self conscious/insecurity thing on their end a lot of the time.
It's so much easier said than done but if you can remember you you belong in any circle you find yourself in and want to be a part of, and that the important part is to respect yourself, that comes off as confidence.
That alone can take you to the moon and back in this world.
Im sorry if this response pissed you iff or made you roll your eyes. If i dod, feel free to say so.