Daniel123

Daniel123

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Apr 3, 2019
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If you had a chance to pick any life which one would it be? Describe what qualities you crave you had which you don't have in this life. On the other hand if you don't like life in general describe why would you prefer to not exist.
 
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Dead beat dad

Dead beat dad

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Mar 5, 2019
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I think we tend to never look at the things we have, only the things we don't have.
For a lot of people that is money, and the associated freedom from the day to day shitty things life makes us do.
I believe that money can't buy happiness but it sure can rent it for a while, and crying in a Ferrari beats crying in a dumpster, but we're still crying all the same.
For me the change I would love is freedom from crippling fatigue. I'd like to wake up in the morning not feeling like I'd just done sparring practice with Anthony Joshua.
Peace friend
DBD
 
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Mofreeko

Mofreeko

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Apr 7, 2019
478
I know this is going to be seen as shallow, but I really wish I had been born with good looks. If you're good looking enough it never matters how socially awkward you are.
 
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seekingoblivion

seekingoblivion

Arcanist
Dec 11, 2018
454
A life that's not nor will it ever be possible. I would have to be an absolutely different person in every way and there would have to be no pain whatsoever in my life.
 
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21Neberg

21Neberg

Enlightened
Dec 17, 2018
1,624
I wish I had friends who would look around and ask me if I was O.K. That's really all I want - someone to care.
 
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dandan

dandan

One more attempt on life.
Feb 18, 2019
1,298
having 5 properties to have a monthly income on rent...
plus having social confidence and positive thoughts
 
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Daniel123

Daniel123

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Apr 3, 2019
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I know this is going to be seen as shallow, but I really wish I had been born with good looks. If you're good looking enough it never matters how socially awkward you are.
Not shallow at all haha. Appearance is very important indeed.
 
dandan

dandan

One more attempt on life.
Feb 18, 2019
1,298
yeah appearance is important but in some cases ( like mine )
good looks
awful
personality / awful selfconfidence / awful expectations
 
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Cookiedough8956

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Feb 24, 2019
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If you had a chance to pick any life which one would it be? Describe what qualities you crave you had which you don't have in this life. On the other hand if you don't like life in general describe why would you prefer to not exist.

If i didn't have a myriad of problems.
Or at the very least my anxiety would be gone.
That would be awesome..
 
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Mofreeko

Mofreeko

Arcanist
Apr 7, 2019
478
yeah appearance is important but in some cases ( like mine )
good looks
awful
personality / awful selfconfidence / awful expectations
I would give anything to be good looking. I envy you quite a lot.
 
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Daniel123

Daniel123

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Apr 3, 2019
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I would give anything to be good looking. I envy you quite a lot.
But there's a catch though. Telling you from my own experience even if you look good you will always end up comparing yourself to better looking ones and never be truly happy.
 
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Deadgirl

Deadgirl

Game Over
Mar 31, 2019
215
A life where I can interact with people and be social. A life where i was able to reach my full potential as a kid. Most of all not be scared of people, like strangers or people that i don't know ver well. Also not fearing intamacy and being able to enjoy food without worrying about getting fat (eating disorder talking). I wish i had a life where i did not meet my major tormentor who would hurt me as a toddler. I wish i had a sister. I could go on but i am going to stop here because I think people get the point.
 
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Worthless_nobody

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Feb 14, 2019
1,384
A life that is not based on luck. Genes, good health, good looks, who your family is all those things are based on chance/luck. A life where money did not rule everything. Anxiety and depression and other mental issues dont exist. Guaranteed love, friends, place to live, food, income. Constant happiness with no evil. Stuff like that.

Although I think I would pick just never existing over anything even a good life.
 
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TheFinalCountdown

TheFinalCountdown

Student
Mar 25, 2019
136
To have a few close friends. To have a relationship with someone I love. To be free from the rat race. To have enough money to experience the better things life has to offer. To have a purpose. To have something to look forward to.

I'd kill for all that
 
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housecat

housecat

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Apr 5, 2019
86
I want to have a sense of freedom and privacy. I want a private house and garden, in a place without weather extremes, away from cities, but not entirely cut off.
 
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Kyrok

Kyrok

Paragon
Nov 6, 2018
970
Well, barring super powers, sci-fi scenarios, massive wealth, etc, I'd like to have a comfortable ~2000sqft home in the mountains, two dogs, surrounded by forest, maybe 20 minutes from a mid-sized town where I have a couple friends and a poker room. I'd like to be healthy, able to travel well, and only work as much as I would enjoy.
 
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Alchemist

Alchemist

Warlock
Apr 3, 2019
709
Maybe a life where I had better looks and health. Maybe some simple life where I had a handful of real friends, a relationship, and stuff like that. Basically if I could be my Stardew Valley character I'd be happy.
 
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Xaphous

Xaphous

hikikomori
Nov 11, 2018
550
Just company and a worthwhile purpose in life. I don't need much aside from that.
 
Rex2019

Rex2019

Can't wait for the summer
Feb 23, 2019
128
be the kid in an old money, rich family
 
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Jc40

Jc40

Specialist
Mar 3, 2019
354
Live in middle of nowhere, have alot of money so I could choose to work or not, not be in pain and be able to deal with daily living
 
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ThisIsTheLastNight

ThisIsTheLastNight

Weakness is the root of all evil
Jan 29, 2019
74
My ideal life would have been
  • Being born to a father and a mother who can take care of themself.
  • going with 4 years to the child training group in the dojo two times a week.
  • with 6 years going to Taekwondo training two times a weak.
  • with 10 going one times a week to Taekwondo training and one times a week to kickbox Training. Additionaly go one times a week to the music school and learn how to play e-guitar and singing. Its good for memory and improved the voice.
  • with 14 getting the first and only girlfriend.
  • with 17 making the driver license and start a apprenticeship as mace. Move out from home.
  • With 20 ending successfully the apprenticeship and marry the girlfriend.
  • getting 5 children, building a house and live long and proper with his wife.
 
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DepressionsAHo

DepressionsAHo

Heaven gained a new ho
Feb 15, 2019
831
If you had a chance to pick any life which one would it be? Describe what qualities you crave you had which you don't have in this life. On the other hand if you don't like life in general describe why would you prefer to not exist.
Very simple
Having the ability to do my work as clearly described with regular people mistakes instead of multiple horrible ones like I do
To look like this





I feel like it's kinda fucked up to put your friend on this site without his explicit consent. Image searching does exist mate
 
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Broken

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Dec 7, 2018
930
yeah appearance is important but in some cases ( like mine )
good looks
awful
personality / awful selfconfidence / awful expectations
Sounds like me! I feel shite for noing that I had somone that was attracted to me and loved me and was considering a future with me until she saw the real person I was/the person I didn't want to be
 
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An hero of our time

An hero of our time

ŠŠµ Š“Š»Ń Š¼ŠµŠ½Ń
Apr 17, 2019
34
It would be me last summer.
I finally felt like i found my destiny, but i needed to work hard to get to it.
And i worked.
I never felt any determination in my life before it, but when i did it was strong as iron. Was happy how tired i've been at the end of each day.
Then i succeded beyond my expectations. The purpose i worked towards was better than i could imagine. I really wanted to live that life.

It all went down too fast and too easy.
I thought i could repair what was damaged, but no matter how hard i tried nothing worked. Maybe i tried too hard this time.

The world's beautiful, and sometimes it's nasty. There are many good and also bad things here. So interesting.
But it just doesn't matter now.

I just want to return to that point in time where my fate was butchered and make everything right. Since time machine is'nt option, i hope i can arrange this travel with Mr. Grim Reaper's help.

I really wanted to live that life. Not the one im trying to end now.
 
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Broken

Paragon
Dec 7, 2018
930
It would be me last summer.
I finally felt like i found my destiny, but i needed to work hard to get to it.
And i worked.
I never felt any determination in my life before it, but when i did it was strong as iron. Was happy how tired i've been at the end of each day.
Then i succeded beyond my expectations. The purpose i worked towards was better than i could imagine. I really wanted to live that life.

It all went down too fast and too easy.
I thought i could repair what was damaged, but no matter how hard i tried nothing worked. Maybe i tried too hard this time.

The world's beautiful, and sometimes it's nasty. There are many good and also bad things here. So interesting.
But it just doesn't matter now.

I just want to return to that point in time where my fate was butchered and make everything right. Since time machine is'nt option, i hope i can arrange this travel with Mr. Grim Reaper's help.

I really wanted to live that life. Not the one im trying to end now.
What did you lose?
 
An hero of our time

An hero of our time

ŠŠµ Š“Š»Ń Š¼ŠµŠ½Ń
Apr 17, 2019
34
What did you lose?
From any other point of view it might be too simple: that one girl.
From my perspective i lost a life i was hoping to live in. Things were too good to lose them. And now it's all going down the drain.
And i made a lot of promises back then. To her, to myself. I hate it so much when promises turns out to be blank words, especially my own.
 
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Broken

Paragon
Dec 7, 2018
930
From any other point of view it might be too simple: that one girl.
From my perspective i lost a life i was hoping to live in. Things were too good to lose them. And now it's all going down the drain.
And i made a lot of promises back then. To her, to myself. I hate it so much when promises turns out to be blank words, especially my own.
I could just sense it was. I lost one to. I wake up every day feeling like Im not living the life I'm supposed to. I also have broken promises.
I could just sense it was. I lost one to. I wake up every day feeling like Im not living the life I'm supposed to. I also have broken promises.
Lol what are people like us supposed to do. Are we doomed to live a life of regret
 
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azucaramargo

azucaramargo

Enlightened
Sep 16, 2018
1,010
I know this is going to be seen as shallow, but I really wish I had been born with good looks. If you're good looking enough it never matters how socially awkward you are.
Man, you said a mouthful. I have been so upset about this lately. Good looks seem to insulate one from so many of life's ravages.
 
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Psychotic King

Psychotic King

Failure
Apr 18, 2019
31
A life without much stress, anxiety, fear, sadness and hate

Not sure how such life could be achieved though
 
Glim

Glim

Student
Jan 28, 2019
105
Being a galaxy brained ai and finding out what caused the big bang

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