Life_and_Death
Do what's best for you 🕯️ Sometimes I'm stressed
- Jul 1, 2020
- 6,828
Im not disagreeing that wrong is wrong and that it emotionally kills (some cases literally considering its a suicide site) but the emotional degree and how it feels.
After my abuse, ive told myself for years "it wasnt that bad". Im part of another forum and im fairly confident i belong there but i dont say much. It wasnt that bad, it could have been worse so i feel its best to not say much. They had it worse, who am i to say anything.
And its the other way around to. My problem was/is worse than yours so again i feel its best to say nothing to avoid them feeling the above paragraph.
Does anyone else feel left out one way or another so they just dont say anything?
For me i typically fall under the "it wasnt that bad" (probably partially my fault) but sometimes i fall under the other one.
It sucks. People shouldnt have to feel like its wrong for them to talk.
After my abuse, ive told myself for years "it wasnt that bad". Im part of another forum and im fairly confident i belong there but i dont say much. It wasnt that bad, it could have been worse so i feel its best to not say much. They had it worse, who am i to say anything.
And its the other way around to. My problem was/is worse than yours so again i feel its best to say nothing to avoid them feeling the above paragraph.
Does anyone else feel left out one way or another so they just dont say anything?
For me i typically fall under the "it wasnt that bad" (probably partially my fault) but sometimes i fall under the other one.
It sucks. People shouldnt have to feel like its wrong for them to talk.