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Firaga

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Nov 28, 2025
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Hi all. First post here, I've done some light reading of the FAQs and rules and whatnot and am fairly confident this is okay to post, and I would appreciate any feedback if it isn't.

There's this idea that, our future selves are not the same people as our current selves. In a way, we have no idea if our future selves would consent to the decision of taking our life. Though, if we're successful, that person doesn't exist, so it's not relevant - except, that's my entire point.

I'm on the fence on whether or not I want to take my life, though have been taking steps to do so. This philosophical argument is one that's convincing me that, perhaps my future self would be grateful that I did not make the decision to take my life - participating on this forum in-and-of-itself is a way for me to (intentionally) wear down the barriers that are keeping me from taking my life, and I am currently juggling how much engagement I want to have here. Regardless, my own personal circumstances aren't what I'm here to discuss.

To me, it feels like kicking the can down the road. Measuring whether or not I'm psychologically capable of making this decision for myself seems to be very difficult, and I don't know where the line is, so I'm curious on your thoughts. Apologies if this has been talked about a lot.

Edit: To clarify,

I am wondering people's thoughts on what it means to be "psychologically capable of" making that decision for themselves.

A question I've posed in a philosophy discussion group for example was, how many days in a row do you have to be confident in this decision in order to make it for yourself? 30? 90? 180? Who makes that decision? What is that decision based off of? Where is the line, philosophically speaking, where society should accept somebody's decision to commit suicide rather than do everything they can to prevent it (and if you're in America, stick you with the medical bill 😒)
 
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Chemi

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I don't think anybody on here will encourage and push you to commit suicide. That is a decision you have to make yourself.

Nobody can tell you if your future is worth keeping up the fight for or not.

We only really share information, experiences and our own opinions on the topic. What you do with these things is entirely up to you and you should never allow somebody to force you into doing anything major, especially something so quite literally life changing as suicide.

Either way, welcome to our little community <3
 
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Praestat_Mori

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Welcome to SS! :heart:
 
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Firaga

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Nov 28, 2025
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Totally! Just to clarify, I am wondering people's thoughts on what it means to be "psychologically capable of" making that decision for themselves.

A question I've posed in a philosophy discussion group for example was, how many days in a row do you have to be confident in this decision in order to make it for yourself? 30? 90? 180? Who makes that decision? What is that decision based off of? Where is the line, philosophically speaking, where society should accept somebody's decision to commit suicide rather than do everything they can to prevent it (and if you're in America, stick you with the medical bill)
 
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joey2424

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This is an interesting thought. And of course there's no way of knowing who your future self might be and if things do get better for them and they are no longer suicidal. For most people who experience being suicidal, I think things do get better and they are glad to be alive. So most likely you are robbing that person by taking your life. If that feels unjust to you, maybe that's a reason to keep going. And maybe that's a blessing in disguise.

As for the other question, society has very low acceptance for suicide. But the way I see it, the waiting period should be at least a few years. Some situations are temporary and while emotions can be strong for a very long time, they can subside.
 
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X-sanguinate86

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Your theoretical future self might also tell you that continuing to live is a gamble that doesn't make much sense, so whatever future possibilities there might be for yourself, deciding not to continue is still rational.
 

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