ctb is for loser?

[Efilismislife]

id like to know what people thought about this in honesty

ive been told by people that ctb is for loser who prove that they messed up and fail in life. that they live an unhappy life and desperately want to run away.

because people who live a happy life/happy with their lives will cherish it and enjoy their life. people who r happy with themselves/the way they are wont wanna kill themselves.

what do you think about it?

for me i do admit but this life depends on luck. this world i unfair. its lucky for them to have a happy life. its normal for unlucky people/suffering people to wanna escape.

but unfortunately even ctb is really hard to do
if only theres another alternative who isnt as hurting as living a torturing life vs ctb with also many risk of going wrong/pain

 

[Circles]

Normal people who say to suicidal people that suicide is for losers are ignorant as fuck and need to check their goddamn privilege.

 

[_Minsk]

People who say its for losers, are in fact losers who can't comprehend the suffering and pain it takes for someone to even consider ctb.. or they're jus assholes..

 

[Pluto]

I probably meet the literal definition of loser, as I have lost plenty. But those who would go on the attack against those of us who have fallen through the cracks might find that their time will come. Why beat up the beaten-up?

 

[blueclover_.]

id like to know what people thought about this in honesty

ive been told by people that ctb is for loser who prove that they messed up and fail in life. that they live an unhappy life and desperately want to run away.

because people who live a happy life/happy with their lives will cherish it and enjoy their life. people who r happy with themselves/the way they are wont wanna kill themselves.

what do you think about it?

for me i do admit but this life depends on luck. this world i unfair. its lucky for them to have a happy life. its normal for unlucky people/suffering people to wanna escape.

but unfortunately even ctb is really hard to do
if only theres another alternative who isnt as hurting as living a torturing life vs ctb with also many risk of going wrong/pain

So those people are saying that living as a homeless person in today's economy is better than being a 'loser' simply because you are aware of the cruelty and unjustness of life? Lmao, they make up shit to cope with their own little precious lives. Ignore them, most people are brainwashed by society to think that life is so precious despite the fact that the pleasures of being alive are short-lived and the suffering is persistent. Ignorance is bliss anyway, they'd rather live in comfortable lies than face the harsh truth of meaningless existence.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Good thing I'm a loser then. This doesn't surprise me either, I've been one my entire life. Just about the only thing I can't lose is my virginity.

 

[Sherri]

People who I call the sheep the common society would mostly say yes, I'd say it takes a lot of guts and courage to do something like that. thats What I told my parents when they called me a loser once at a hospital bed sit on one of my attempts.

 

[Wojaczek]

Suicide takes the most balls imo

 

[FuneralCry]

Suicide should not be so stigmatised. Pro lifers are very delusional. Wanting suicide can be a rational response to someone coming to the conclusion that their life is not worth living, we all have the right to exit at a time of our own choosing after all. Suicidal people should not be shamed in any way. People should learn to respect other's decisions about their own lives. Many people simply want to escape decades of suffering.

 

[cambrai33]

Try to stop giving a shit what other people think.

You are unique and nobody even some of the forum experts know what it is to be you completely. If somebody wants to say it's for losers then fine let them say it, you are unlikely to change minds and you will no doubt spend lots of energy and emotion trying to get them to think otherwise.

I don't seek anyones understanding and you shouldn't either, it's normally a path to angst

 

[Lost Magic]

Well the ones who say that are either privileged, obtuse or just nasty. I mean everyone of us are just one car crash or bad financial upset away from losing a lot in life. And what about people who are mentally and/or physically disabled? Are they supposed to just deny that they are going through all this pain and suffering because it is an inconvenience to someone else's intolerance? Why isn't ethics and decency taught in schools to a higher level? I mean come on.

 

[cambrai33]

Well the ones who say that are either privileged, obtuse or just nasty. I mean everyone of us are just one car crash or bad financial upset away from losing a lot in life. And what about people who are mentally and/or physically disabled? Are they supposed to just deny that they are going through all this pain and suffering because it is an inconvenience to someone else's intolerance? Why isn't ethics and decency taught in schools to a higher level? I mean come on.

I hate the thought of being taught ethics and decency because who gets to decide what they are?

 

[Fadeawaaaay]

Well I am the very definition of a loser quite literally. I have some positive qualities. But I have failed at the game of life. That's why I'm here.

 

[demuic]

If we're such losers than we should be allowed to off ourselves in peace without anyone being concerned about it.

 

[Fadeawaaaay]

If we're such losers than we should be allowed to off ourselves in peace without anyone being concerned about it.

No doubt

 

[motel rooms]

my parents when they called me a loser once at a hospital bed sit on one of my attempts.

Despicable...

I don't seek anyones understanding and you shouldn't either

Too bad it's human nature to do so.

 

[Bleak]

Just world fallacy. People want to believe that their happiness is deserved and that other people's misery must also be deserved.

 

[Sherri]

Despicable...



Too bad it's human nature to do so.

Thank you @hotelbeneathground , your words of mean a lot.

 

[Belljar]

It can be. I think in my case I made foolish choices that led me here.

 

[tieiwi]

guess I'm a loser then, but seriously who cares those people who can easily say those things are so close minded and only see what they want to see

 

[Versailles]

I think that people are obsessed with seeing life as a kind of Super Mario, a game where you have to level up and which you cannot give up, of course, the concept of failure is relative but people associate suicide a lot with it. failure since they compare life to a race, where you must drive no matter what happens.