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Anyone feel like the criteria for assisted suicide is crazy? I understand they need some for it to be legal but only a small amount of people can pass the criteria. I read someone's post about wanting to go for assisted suicide and they told him he was too young even though he was 50. Which compared to me is much older. (Not saying that you're a grandpa by being 50 but I'd say that's a good age for assisted suicide. Plus you need a lot of paper work about all the therapies you've done but I went through some and never got any papers from them as a "certification" or whatever. English is not my first language so I'm not sure if I'm making sense...uh talking is hard
 
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yeah totally. if it's mental illness you're suffering from you're gonna have it a hell of a lot harder too. people don't seem to take mental illness as seriously. meds and therapy don't work for everyone, and the checking therapies is a slippery slope. how many months, years worth of different therapies must i try before people are satisfied i gave it my best shot? what if i'm too mentally ill to engage with those therapies in the first place??
 
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Life_and_Death

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well here in canada someone with mental illness can get it, but the hoops theyd have to jump through they might as well get better or do it themselves
 
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yeah totally. if it's mental illness you're suffering from you're gonna have it a hell of a lot harder too. people don't seem to take mental illness as seriously. meds and therapy don't work for everyone, and the checking therapies is a slippery slope. how many months, years worth of different therapies must i try before people are satisfied i gave it my best shot? what if i'm too mentally ill to engage with those therapies in the first place??
Definitely agree that mental illnesses aren't taken seriously. People think that because you can't see it then it's not real
well here in canada someone with mental illness can get it, but the hoops theyd have to jump through they might as well get better or do it themselves
Yeah the process is very long, I only know about the 2 in Switzerland cause it's the closest one to me but I never considered it as an option cause I'm "too young"
 
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Definitely agree that mental illnesses aren't taken seriously. People think that because you can't see it then it's not real
i dont think its so much that in this case. i really think its to stop people from doing it impulsively. thats all the system really seems to help with, from hotlines to assisted suicide. for the most part i dont agree but when it comes to assisted suicide i do. you cant just be killing everyone off just because they had a bad day.
 
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i dont think its so much that in this case. i really think its to stop people from doing it impulsively. thats all the system really seems to help with, from hotlines to assisted suicide. for the most part i dont agree but when it comes to assisted suicide i do. you cant just be killing everyone off just because they had a bad day.
Guess you're right, I just wish there were more peaceful and easily obtainable ways to CTB if assisted suicide is so complicated
 
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well here in canada someone with mental illness can get it, but the hoops theyd have to jump through they might as well get better or do it themselves

No in Canada mentall illness doesn't qualify. It has to be a terminal illness or you have to be "nearing death". It's horseshit.

It's absolute garbage that young people suffering can't have a peaceful exit and make their own decision.
 
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No in Canada mentall illness doesn't qualify. It has to be a terminal illness or you have to be "nearing death". It's horseshit.

It's absolute garbage that young people suffering can't have a peaceful exit and make their own decision.
i looked extensively into the law when it first came into practice in 2016. and yes you can but like i said you have to jump through so many hoops to prove this is your last option that theres no point in it. " You do not need to have a fatal or terminal condition to be eligible for medical assistance in dying." right from canadas site
 
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i looked extensively into the law when it first came into practice in 2016. and yes you can but like i said you have to jump through so many hoops to prove this is your last option that theres no point in it. " You do not need to have a fatal or terminal condition to be eligible for medical assistance in dying." right from canadas site

News to me. Maybe I'll apply anyways I have nothing to lose!
 
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News to me. Maybe I'll apply anyways I have nothing to lose!
damn near impossible. you have to prove youve tried every other option first. medications, therapies, ect. thats why i gave up on that option years ago lol
 
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If you explain to a pro-life that you have a tumor in your head that causes pain and suffering all the time and that no medication works against it, then he will tell you how sorry he is and he can accept it if you do want to do ctb.

If you explain to a pro-life that you have psychological problems that cause you pain and suffering all day and that no medication works against it, then he will just laugh at you and
Telling yourself that you are a lazy bum who doesn't want to work.

He doesn't have an easy life either, and yet he lives on.

Pro-life people cannot understand mental health problems. It will therefore take a long time to change the laws that prevent euthanasia in mental illnesses
 
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i looked extensively into the law when it first came into practice in 2016. and yes you can but like i said you have to jump through so many hoops to prove this is your last option that theres no point in it. " You do not need to have a fatal or terminal condition to be eligible for medical assistance in dying." right from canadas site
While is does state that in the larger criteria. Reasonably foreseeable was always a barrier. Which is what doctors have been following. With Bill C-7 removing reasonably foreseeable, mental illness is explicitly excluded. So even less rights than before.
News to me. Maybe I'll apply anyways I have nothing to lose!
It's not true. It states you have to meet ALL the criteria. Your death has to be reasonably foreseeable.
 
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My take on this is that you are the sole entity in ownership of your own body. I don't remember anyone asking me whether I wish to have been born, so it's only logical I shouldn't have to ask anybody for a permission to die.

I think assisted suicide should be a legal option for everyone as it would satisfy the following:
a) provide a humane way to end your life
b) limit trauma to people who interact with suicidal people on regular basis (train drivers for instance)
c) validate that mental suffering can be just as bad as physical anguish

As for euthanasia (someone administering a lethal drug on your behalf), I feel that's a more controversial topic that should be open for more discussion as there is a huge potential for misuse (for example with elderly patients).
 
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@Life_and_Death If what you said about Canada is true, then I guess it is even more strict than the Netherlands or Switzerland when it comes to assisted suicide, RTD, voluntary euthanasia. Not to rail on Canada so hard, but if given those options, I'd still rather just CTB by my own hand while I have the capacity to do so.

No in Canada mentall illness doesn't qualify. It has to be a terminal illness or you have to be "nearing death". It's horseshit.

It's absolute garbage that young people suffering can't have a peaceful exit and make their own decision.
Yeah, I agree, it's horseshit for sure. :aw: I do wonder, does quadriplegia, ALS, or MS qualify for it? I know it's not necessarily terminal illness, but a chronic condition and quality of life is poor. One of my fears is becoming severely physically disabled that I would have difficulty doing day to day activities and even lack the physical ability to CTB. (Note: This isn't a jab at people with actual conditions, nor discounting them. If they choose to live despite their predicament, I respect their courage, choice, and perseverance.)

If you explain to a pro-life that you have a tumor in your head that causes pain and suffering all the time and that no medication works against it, then he will tell you how sorry he is and he can accept it if you do want to do ctb.

If you explain to a pro-life that you have psychological problems that cause you pain and suffering all day and that no medication works against it, then he will just laugh at you and
Telling yourself that you are a lazy bum who doesn't want to work.

He doesn't have an easy life either, and yet he lives on.

Pro-life people cannot understand mental health problems. It will therefore take a long time to change the laws that prevent euthanasia in mental illnesses
That is very true. With respect to the first scenario, you do have people (especially the devoutly religious) who will still reject the idea of CTB'ing even for terminal illnesses, oftenly citing "It's not for humans to decide, but God." etc. I had my fair share of run-ins with people like that through the course of my life. Nowadays I don't really argue with them because I know their position and they are not (likely) going change their views.

As for the other scenario, yes that is very true and one other reason, objectively speaking is that because the pro-lifer isn't the person experiencing suffering and since it is harder for someone to objectively measure psychological pain (not visible to the eye), people oftenly dismiss it. I know it's wrong and psychological suffering is just as valid as physical suffering even if it isn't visible to the naked eye. I too, wish for the laws to change with respect to euthanasia for those who are suffering psychologically. One such story is a special case in the Netherlands (just to name a few), but of course, it is not easy to get approval for it.

My take on this is that you are the sole entity in ownership of your own body. I don't remember anyone asking me whether I wish to have been born, so it's only logical I shouldn't have to ask anybody for a permission to die.

I think assisted suicide should be a legal option for everyone as it would satisfy the following:
a) provide a humane way to end your life
b) limit trauma to people who interact with suicidal people on regular basis (train drivers for instance)
c) validate that mental suffering can be just as bad as physical anguish

As for euthanasia (someone administering a lethal drug on your behalf), I feel that's a more controversial topic that should be open for more discussion as there is a huge potential for misuse (for example with elderly patients).
Well said and I agree with your claim. I never chose to be alive, to exist, to be, thus I shouldn't need permission to go.
 
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Anyone feel like the criteria for assisted suicide is crazy? I understand they need some for it to be legal but only a small amount of people can pass the criteria. I read someone's post about wanting to go for assisted suicide and they told him he was too young even though he was 50. Which compared to me is much older. (Not saying that you're a grandpa by being 50 but I'd say that's a good age for assisted suicide. Plus you need a lot of paper work about all the therapies you've done but I went through some and never got any papers from them as a "certification" or whatever. English is not my first language so I'm not sure if I'm making sense...uh talking is hard
I've seen w documentary about a 25 year old girl in amsterdam that got approved for euthanasia because of her depression.
If you explain to a pro-life that you have a tumor in your head that causes pain and suffering all the time and that no medication works against it, then he will tell you how sorry he is and he can accept it if you do want to do ctb.

If you explain to a pro-life that you have psychological problems that cause you pain and suffering all day and that no medication works against it, then he will just laugh at you and
Telling yourself that you are a lazy bum who doesn't want to work.

He doesn't have an easy life either, and yet he lives on.

Pro-life people cannot understand mental health problems. It will therefore take a long time to change the laws that prevent euthanasia in mental illnesses
There is assisted suicide in Amsterdam, I saw a documentary about a 25 year old girl there that hot approved. But the price was something like 15 thousand euros and she had to be evaluated by 5 psychiatrictris
 
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I've seen w documentary about a 25 year old girl in amsterdam that got approved for euthanasia because of her depression.

There is assisted suicide in Amsterdam, I saw a documentary about a 25 year old girl there that hot approved. But the price was something like 15 thousand euros and she had to be evaluated by 5 psychiatrictris
Do you have a link? That seems too good to be true
 
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Yes i agree that the criteria for assisted suicide is insane. I am not surprised. This world is inhumane. The government wants us to suffer.Fucking riduculous. No one should be forced to ctb themself.
 
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While is does state that in the larger criteria. Reasonably foreseeable was always a barrier. Which is what doctors have been following. With Bill C-7 removing reasonably foreseeable, mental illness is explicitly excluded. So even less rights than before.

It's not true. It states you have to meet ALL the criteria. Your death has to be reasonably foreseeable.
Which is weird, because suicide is DEFINITELY something that leads to your death. I mean logically, of course. Ah!
 
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Not 100% sure, but I think Airboy has this one in mind:



Watch till the end

You can really see the humanity in this. How she's able to express herself in a free environment. She looks healthier emotionally being free from the healthcare system I am adapt to.
Question for anyone from Belgium. Is this a realistic experience for Belgium euthanasia requests.
 
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You can really see the humanity in this. How she's able to express herself in a free environment. She looks healthier emotionally being free from the healthcare system I am adapt to.
Question for anyone from Belgium. Is this a realistic experience for Belgium euthanasia requests.
I'm not from Belgium, but saw some stats on mental health euthanasia cases - 48 were approved and 11 of them cancelled. That was Belgium and even Switzerland I think. Don't know the year of these stats.
 
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I'm not from Belgium, but saw some stats on mental health euthanasia cases - 48 were approved and 11 of them cancelled. That was Belgium and even Switzerland I think. Don't know the year of these stats.
I must be crazy, only 59 people applied. Although they do seem like they respect most applications.
 
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I don't know how many applied - just 48 were approved and of that group, 11 of them did not ctb. I may have read this in the story of a young Canadian man who was trying to change the law there. He wasn't successful with the law change, but did ctb. I think for some just knowing you have the option helps.
 
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I don't know how many applied - just 48 were approved and of that group, 11 of them did not ctb. I may have read this in the story of a young Canadian man who was trying to change the law there. He wasn't successful with the law change, but did ctb. I think for some just knowing you have the option helps.
That's not very many.

The Canadian guy was Adam Maier Clayton. Our laws are changing right now and he never gets discussed. He was a good speaker. I think most wouldn't want to put themselves out there so much, but he did a good job.
 
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Telling yourself that you are a lazy bum who doesn't want to work.
Literally how my parents describe me and I'm sure that's how other people see me as well but fuck I'm bipolar and have severe anxiety like literally the thought of getting a job makes me go into fight or flight mode it just makes me panic because I know I wouldn't be able to be productive or last long term at a job man I really wish assisted suicide was more obtainable for mental illness
 
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You are viewing the choice as restrictive assisted suicide vs freely available assisted suicide. This is false. Even among those who support legally available assisted suicide, the numbers who support any adult regardless of age or situation having access to euthanasia aren't there.

the choice available in some countries or localities is restrictive assisted suicide or nothing. You can dislike this or disagree with this, but it isn't changing anytime soon.
 
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DrWh033

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I think this forum is the proof that the restrictive assisted suicide should be even more restrictive in the future.
And yes mental illness is a grey area.