I look like shit all of the time, I have chronic fatigue so I am constantly knackered. I look pale and enough bags under my eyes to do the weekly shop with. Also have fibromyalgia and pain can be ageing. Someone recently estimated my age as 6 years older than I am. Also I thought that going grey overnight was an old wives tale, but since my hubby passed, in the months since, I've gone grey. But that is the least of my worries lol. I do hate it though when people judge based on appearance, i'm no fan of any type of body fascism !!