Cheap hookers in NYC?

[yesitsme39]

can sleeping with hookers increase confidence? Where can I find cheap hookers in NYC.

 

[BooGirl]

wait a few months, wouldn't wanna catch the flu

 

[HelensNepenthe]

There are other forums for sex workers. This isn't one. No one is going to tell you where to find sex workers.

> can sleeping with hookers increase confidence?
Not necessarily.

 

[Wayfaerer]

> can sleeping with hookers increase confidence?
Not necessarily.

It had in my case. Even though I paid for it, it was an awakening experience. I didn't go for a hooker, however, I went with an escort (middle-class hooker.) I have no regrets other than not going before things had become unbearably bad. Then again, I was highly selective and may have gotten lucky by finding the right one. I saw her again for the 2nd time a short while ago. It's definitely worth it to do an overnight for your first time.

 

[waterbottleman]

I wish I had the balls to hire an escort where I live (West coast US) but I'm too scared of law enforcement arresting me and ruining my life over it.

Really sucks, I wouldn't be so fucking lonely if I could hire an escort to hang out with me on weekend nights. I'd like to take her out to dinner and walk around the city at night with her and talk about life.

Too bad society doesn't give a damn about lonely guys, society hates us and would prefer us to rot in loneliness until we kill ourselves.

Well society, at least you'll be getting what you want from me soon.

 

[TAW122]

I second @BooGirl on this.

I wish I had the balls to hire an escort where I live (West coast US) but I'm too scared of law enforcement arresting me and ruining my life over it.

Really sucks, I wouldn't be so fucking lonely if I could hire an escort to hang out with me on weekend nights. I'd like to take her out to dinner and walk around the city at night with her and talk about life.

Too bad society doesn't give a damn about lonely guys, society hates us and would prefer us to rot in loneliness until we kill ourselves.

Well society, at least you'll be getting what you want from me soon.

If you have the means and money to do so, I would suggest going a state over, to the east, in Nevada. There are some legal brothels there (despite the shrinking business) and while I don't of any currently, they are a bit pricey. Alternatively, my suggestion would be to go to Amsterdam, Netherlands or Germany (after the pandemic has passed of course!), and look for options there. I went to Amsterdam, Netherlands to lose my virginity so it's something you can consider. I wouldn't necessarily go for the RLD (Red Light District) because while it's cheap, you may/not have a good experience. Personally, I went to a brothel in Amsterdam last October (in 2019). Just my suggestions.

 

[Conker]

I second @BooGirl on this.


If you have the means and money to do so, I would suggest going a state over, to the east, in Nevada. There are some legal brothels there (despite the shrinking business) and while I don't of any currently, they are a bit pricey. Alternatively, my suggestion would be to go to Amsterdam, Netherlands or Germany (after the pandemic has passed of course!), and look for options there. I went to Amsterdam, Netherlands to lose my virginity so it's something you can consider. I wouldn't necessarily go for the RLD (Red Light District) because while it's cheap, you may/not have a good experience. Personally, I went to a brothel in Amsterdam last October (in 2019). Just my suggestions.

Right now it's actually a great time to go since Coronavirus has been proven to be a hoax. Take advantage of the cheap prices while they last.

 

[mesohappy]

Ive visited some hookers in my day but we didn't do much "sleeping"..

As for NYC,never been there.Maybe try a massage parlor?

Where building confidence is concerned,it didn't give me confidence,more like "next day shame" to go along with the hangover the following morning.

I can see how visiting a sex worker might help one with their confidence if they were a virgin,however.She will tell you how "good you were" whether or not you really were, after you put the money in her hands.

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

Right now it's actually a great time to go since Coronavirus has been proven to be a hoax. Take advantage of the cheap prices while they last.

Would you be willing to provide sources that it is a hoax?

Too bad society doesn't give a damn about lonely guys, society hates us and would prefer us to rot in loneliness until we kill ourselves.

This is not the first time I've heard such a statement on SS. I'm curious and would like to pursue it but do not want to derail this thread.

I'm thinking of making an off topic thread titled, "What would it look like if society cared about lonely men?" I have no intentions of baiting or negating, I'd sincerely like to hear your and others' perspectives and have a respectful dialogue about this issue.

If I do create the thread, may I have your permission to use part or all of this quote in the OP? If you say no, I will absolutely respect that.

Is it a thread you would have interest in engaging with?

 

[waterbottleman]

I second @BooGirl on this.


If you have the means and money to do so, I would suggest going a state over, to the east, in Nevada. There are some legal brothels there (despite the shrinking business) and while I don't of any currently, they are a bit pricey. Alternatively, my suggestion would be to go to Amsterdam, Netherlands or Germany (after the pandemic has passed of course!), and look for options there. I went to Amsterdam, Netherlands to lose my virginity so it's something you can consider. I wouldn't necessarily go for the RLD (Red Light District) because while it's cheap, you may/not have a good experience. Personally, I went to a brothel in Amsterdam last October (in 2019). Just my suggestions.

I already did that, went to one of the brothels in Nevada in January.

That isn't exactly what I'm looking for though, I meant more along the lines of an escort instead of a prostitute.

 

[Montparnasse]

Why would it increase your confidence? She isn't sleeping with you out of choice, she is only doing it for monetary gain and while she is with you she is probably thinking of something entirely different while trying to get you to leave as soon as possible.

 

[waterbottleman]

Would you be willing to provide sources that it is a hoax?




This is not the first time I've heard such a statement on SS. I'm curious and would like to pursue it but do not want to derail this thread.

I'm thinking of making an off topic thread titled, "What would it look like if society cared about lonely men?" I have no intentions of baiting or negating, I'd sincerely like to hear your and others' perspectives and have a respectful dialogue about this issue.

If I do create the thread, may I have your permission to use part or all of this quote in the OP? If you say no, I will absolutely respect that.

Is it a thread you would have interest in engaging with?

I would prefer it if you didn't use my quote.

Also I dont think I'd want to participate in that thread.

I already know what will happen if I do participate. A lot of people will just assume that I hate women/am a hateful bitter person or something along those lines and they'll just give the stereotypical answers about how I need to stop whining and better myself. No one cares to listen and show compassion/understanding.

That is part of the loneliness factor, the fact that no one cares to actually listen and give feedback that isn't hostile or passive aggressive.

This is also the reason why a lot of men don't talk about their feelings. A lot of us are shunned and demonized for it, often accused of being hateful or something else negative that isn't true. So sooner or later we realize the best answer is to bottle up how we feel and never say anything to anyone, cause no one cares anyways.

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

Why would it increase your confidence? She isn't sleeping with you out of choice, she is only doing it for monetary gain and while she is with you she is probably thinking of something entirely different while trying to get you to leave as soon as possible.

I could see how practicing interactions and touch would increase confidence. There are actually people who have therapeutic sex to help with increasing confidence and working with problems like premature ejaculation. They're not sex therapists and they're not technically prostitutes.

I get what @waterbottleman is saying about escorts.

Sex workers are people too. They all have different motivations for what they do and different ways of interacting. I have been acquainted with active and former sex workers. None came from an empowered background, but all were good people with different motivations for and perspectives on the interactions and the work.

I would make an educated guess that quality generally won't come cheaply, nor will a higher rate ensure a quality experience, especially if emotional and not just physical fulfillment is the goal.

I would worry that a "cheap" sex worker is pimped, trafficked, addicted to substances, may set up the customer for victimization, etc.

I would prefer it if you didn't use my quote.

Also I dont think I'd want to participate in that thread.

I already know what will happen if I do participate. A lot of people will just assume that I hate women/am a hateful bitter person or something along those lines and they'll just give the stereotypical answers about how I need to stop whining and better myself. No one cares to listen and show compassion/understanding.

That is part of the loneliness factor, the fact that no one cares to actually listen and give feedback that isn't hostile or passive aggressive.

This is also the reason why a lot of men don't talk about their feelings. A lot of us are shunned and demonized for it, often accused of being hateful or something else negative that isn't true. So sooner or later we realize the best answer is to bottle up how we feel and never say anything to anyone, cause no one cares anyways.

Then I'll honor your request and won't quote you. And I won't make the thread because I recognize there is potential for your concerns coming to pass. I don't want to create that.

If you ever want to PM, I would love to listen to your answer to my question if you wanted to share it. I have respect and appreciation for you, I hope I made that clear in another fairly recent interaction. I appreciated hearing your perspective. But its not just about me. If you don't want such a discussion, I honor and respect that, too.

Sending a safe hug.