Help can you leave kind words for me?

[buzzkill]

I'm in a really low point of my life, but I'm too scared to actually leave everything behind. I've come to realize I really apreciate kind words, even if it comes from strangers.
So, if anyone feels like it, can you reply with encouraging words for me? it would really help, thank you.

 

[bluebree]

Hey! I hope you are doing alright at the moment. I just wanted to say that I know shit can be bad, and life can be a pain, however, there are so many little things. Amazing little things that we take for granted and that if we payed more attention to, maybe life would be a little bit better. Thats not to say that I know your situation at all, however, I can name a few things that might help when things feel all horrible

Things that we dont appreciate enough
The feeling of warm water
Sitting comfy in bed
Freshly washed pjs
Neighborhood cats
The ability to roll around on grass
The feeling of grass or ocean water on bare feet
Cold water at night when your thirsty
A good nostalgic movie along with a snack
remembering to breathe, deeply
fresh morning air
pets!
flowers and how beautiful and unique they can be
the stars and the moon and the smell of nighttime air
finger painting!

I can think of more if you'd like. Idk if this helps but I hope you do chose to stay around because our lives can change so quickly. We have so many opportunities to live and grow.

:)

 

[buzzkill]

Hey! I hope you are doing alright at the moment. I just wanted to say that I know shit can be bad, and life can be a pain, however, there are so many little things. Amazing little things that we take for granted and that if we payed more attention to, maybe life would be a little bit better. Thats not to say that I know your situation at all, however, I can name a few things that might help when things feel all horrible

Things that we dont appreciate enough
The feeling of warm water
Sitting comfy in bed
Freshly washed pjs
Neighborhood cats
The ability to roll around on grass
The feeling of grass or ocean water on bare feet
Cold water at night when your thirsty
A good nostalgic movie along with a snack
remembering to breathe, deeply
fresh morning air
pets!
flowers and how beautiful and unique they can be
the stars and the moon and the smell of nighttime air
finger painting!

I can think of more if you'd like. Idk if this helps but I hope you do chose to stay around because our lives can change so quickly. We have so many opportunities to live and grow.

:)

this is so helpful, you have no idea. I'm trembling as I write this lol, thank you so so much

 

[bluebree]

this is so helpful, you have no idea. I'm trembling as I write this lol, thank you so so much

Im glad. Also I read your post about bpd, and I understand. I have that aswell and i know how it can feel so overwhelming. Just take it day by day, know you are not evil and you are loved. If you need anything, you have people to reach out to, and if you dont, dms are open.

 

[aitouka]

Hey, I'm here for you! Though yes, I'm just a fellow stranger, I'll try to help however I can. Look at us, look at the coloured walls of buildings, scent of grass, the sky whether it's sunny or dreary, and breathe. I hope everything will get better for you :)

 

[PartlyHuman]

I don't have much experience with kind words so sorry if I sound awkward...
Life is a pain and bpd is horrible but once I tried living for myself, not for my FP or any other people I realised that I'm much more than I thought.
You're much more than you think, too. You're more than any diagnosis or people that surround you and even more than the consuming emotions and your trauma. Every human is a little cosmos and this cosmos is inherently beautiful - you too! Even if sometimes you feel damaged and worthless, it's less than a moment on the cosmic scale and it'll pass, but who YOU are, the beautiful memory of you, will stay forever.
Sometimes it seems like the trauma is overwhelming and makes your whole person but it isn't true in the slightest. There is a story of you beyond it, like the little things the child you
loved, the pretty sky you saw and the things you enjoy. The bad times will pass but YOU will stay and these good memories will stay too.

 

[{ixo//}]

Don't lose all hope. I can't know what your life might be like, but I hope whatever happens you can feel some happiness. Life can be painful and cruel, but however bad it feels that it can get, there are always things that give it meaning. Do you like music? That's something that brings a lot of happiness to me when I feel low.
I hope that whatever happens to you in your life, you are able to be happy. You're have value, even if you don't feel like it. Wish you the best.

 

[Valky]

Hello fellow stranger!!

I am very sorry to hear that you are having a rough time. Remember, you already made it this far. You've survived 100% of your days so far and I am so incredibly proud of you.

I know I cannot see you but you are rocking this look no matter what it is, you are a 11/10, all day, everyday B)

 

[SoftWorries]

It's fine to feel suicidal.
It's fine to feel anything.
Don't judge yourself based on others.
Question if the things you feel you're lacking are what society expects you to have and not your own desires.
Follow only your own bliss.
You didn't choose to be born so you shouldn't have to struggle for existence.
Likely if your life feels unfair it's because it is unfair.

I hope you find your happiness. When it's connected to what other people want it's always harder to grasp. I wish you freedom, I wish you beauty, I wish you wellness.

I think it's a beautiful thing to have things you don't want to leave behind. In a place like this where no one is judged for feeling some true healing can happen. You don't need to hide. Everyone sees your pain and wants so much for you to get every bit of happiness you desire.

 

[thirdrailer]

You have realized you appreciate kind words and have asked for them. That's doing something nice for yourself, and that's truly lovely. I'm so glad you're doing nice things for yourself.

 

[itsallpointless]

You're not too proud to ask for help and that's a very essential trait for success and healthy relationships. Just hope if you aren't already that you have confidence and strength of character to also decline help when unwanted

 

[frog_prince]

hi stranger..

i pray for a better life for you and your loved ones, and also for you pet if you have one

 

[Stormy Raine]

Take a deep breath, we are all allowed to have bad days, we are all here together I don't know you but I pray that your today and tomorrow be a beautiful day! Eat and do whatever makes YOU happy! Have a wonderful day for all of us!! Please come back and share if you can if your day was good and what you done, we all would love to hear

 

[voc_89]

op i hope you are feeling a litte better today. Take each day as a small victory. Do little things that bring you joy (even though they may run counter to your current objectives... example weight loss). Or other things that help distract your thoughts (for me I like to be a pest in online pvp games lol). Getting through the low point is the hardest part. But we all here with you. And hoping for the best for you.

 

[stermc]

I don't know you, but I would like to say some things.
First of all, I am sorry you have a hard time dealing with your mental health, but I hope you treat yourself the same way you would treat a best friend.
I hope you can forgive yourself for all the times you failed, because you deserve forgiveness. I hope you can look at yourself with compassion, because you deserve understanding.
I hope you can learn how to love yourself, because it doesn't matter what happens inside your head or whatever happens in your life, you deserve love. You are the only one who knows how it is to be inside of yourself. And the kind of love you deserve is, above all, your love, because that's the love that saves.
I hope you can look at yourself in the mirror and feel grateful because that's the body that allows you to feel the sand in your toes and the wind in your hair.
Sometimes it gets hard and all we want to do is to give up, but I hope you can always remember you have the most important thing by your side: your own self. Embrace yourself, beautiful. Don't ever let anyone or anything drag you down. Make yourself your most precious thing.
And in this path of recovery, I hope you can hold tight to the good things, because even though life is unfair, we can be and do better.
You have the right to be in this earth and you are part of it.
I hope you can see and appreciate the universe you have inside of you.

 

[wastingpotential]

you are still here with us and that's the bravest thing a person can do. continuing on is frightening and hard, but you're making it work. we're proud of you.

i also suggest listening to music that include affirming words you'd like to hear. i truly believe that there's a piece of music and / or lyrics out in this world that perfectly describe every feeling a person has aswell as what they'd wanna hear

 

[BloomingStrella]

What's up buzzkill, remember that when the going gets tough, you get tougher to out-tough the tough situation (if that makes any sense). I believe in you! Nothing is a straightforward road. Just as everything is an uncertainty, your situation could change, hopefully for the better. Good luck, and I hope you feel better soon.