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lonerclown666
Mage
- Dec 1, 2020
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Can destroy yourself and everything of your menta health can make you a become a lunatic
Hm. Sounds like we have at least a few experiences in common.Yes. Yes it can. Virtually every human being desires some form of connection to others; even those who are more introverted and prefer their solitude need contact from time to time.
Rejection is viewed as a normal part of human life; the pain that a person goes through, should they experience rejection, is therefore dismissed as trivial. In reality, though, this pain can run deep. If you have exceptionally strong feelings toward somebody else, it can be difficult to recover from. This is especially true of individuals who had trouble forming bonds with others in the first place; imagine being unable to find another person, for many years on end, that shares anything with you at all - the loneliness is already crushing. Then, when you eventually find the rare individual that you really like, they want nothing to do with you. That empty space in your chest grows into huge chasm; it hurts so much to the point that it no longer hurts, because you just feel empty.
I used to feel the same way except that I was more hateful and aggressive rather than strictly afraid. Now I know that, even if they don't hate me, they won't like me for long either. The rejection is worse than the hostility, really.For many years I was terrified to death of people, especially as a kid due to the bullying I faced as a young child. Even when I didn't know someone, I automatically assumed they hated me or judged me. I still struggle to shake that feeling, even now, because it's been so embedded in my brain.
You summed it up correctly! I'm including this is my end notes. Everything relates. It's hard to forget awful negative life experiences. Thank you for this commentYes, constantly being treated in a negative way by others can damage us mentally. If someone is bullied as a child it can affect them in adulthood, as we are unable to forget the past. People may have problems trusting others because of the way they are treated and rejection can lead to us expecting the worst in situations.
Rejection not so bad, bullying absolutely.Can destroy yourself and everything of your menta health can make you a become a lunatic