Snake of Eden
“Ye shall be as gods..🍎 🐍”
- Jun 22, 2021
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Lately I been doing alot of pondering about what it means to get what you want. I been involved in a romantic relationship that didnt has the chance to blossom after life drifted us apart by chance two years ago and I was bitter about it ever since until few days ago when I happened to realise that I could never be successful at having fulfiling love life because of my many issues. After so many ruminations about what ifs and cursing the universe for depriving me from the chance at love, I came to be happy that we werent meant to be. The reason is as much as I feel we liked each other and could have been so compatible, the truth is I dont have what it takes to be in a good relationship. In other words I would have suffered immensely out of my inability to be successful in being romantic and a good partner because I wouldnt be able to give something that I dont have.
My desire for intimacy is still there but my new understanding of what it takes for relationships to work versus what I am realistically able to offer is a good mind opening epiphany that I just suck at relationships in general and intimacy and it is ok because it is not nearly my fault and something out of my control. I am genuinely happy it ended that way because ag least I still have the good memories from it as it didnt end in any jarring way that makes my mind try to suppress it.
Thank you R.S. for making me feel that I could be loved and that I deserve happiness even though I could never achieve that but you could see beneath my awkwardness and shortcomings enough to connect to my core as I connected with yours. I really wish you happiness for the rest of your life :)
My desire for intimacy is still there but my new understanding of what it takes for relationships to work versus what I am realistically able to offer is a good mind opening epiphany that I just suck at relationships in general and intimacy and it is ok because it is not nearly my fault and something out of my control. I am genuinely happy it ended that way because ag least I still have the good memories from it as it didnt end in any jarring way that makes my mind try to suppress it.
Thank you R.S. for making me feel that I could be loved and that I deserve happiness even though I could never achieve that but you could see beneath my awkwardness and shortcomings enough to connect to my core as I connected with yours. I really wish you happiness for the rest of your life :)
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