Discussion Birthday cards

[MsMaudlin]

I can't decide if this is a lovely sweet thing to do or it will be really upsetting?
I was going to send all the family birthday cards, preordered on Moonpig for after I'm gone.
❤

 

[mathieu]

I think it's a really nice idea!

 

[FriendofDeath]

I also think it's a nice idea. Shows you're thinking about them and care.

 

[aukguy]

Agree that perhaps as a 'one-off" ie for birthdays that are upcoming. Though, as I stated in another thread, not sure about the idea of a card arriving from someone who has been mourned. Better, perhaps, would be to leave hand-written cards that can be found with a note in your belongings.

 

[Amnesty]

Agree that perhaps as a 'one-off" ie for birthdays that are upcoming. Though, as I stated in another thread, not sure about the idea of a card arriving from someone who has been mourned. Better, perhaps, would be to leave hand-written cards that can be found with a note in your belongings.

I straight off disagreed unless they do not know you were dead. I think it would make things awkward and harder in my opinion. If you want to show you care have a little gift for them/love and kisses amd leave a sweet suicide note.

 

[Lostandfound7]

It's a really sweet gesture honey, but I think it could possibly cause further upset in the midst of their mourning...

 

[Jumper Geo]

Very creative but they will be upset by you ctb and receiving a card may interrupt the mourning process and they will be wondering if they will receive a Christmas Card and present, if you could leave a nice birthday card with friends to give to them or a video message stored on your pc make sure you leave instructions on where to find it and your login details.

Still think you should wait until you have 2000 likes, .

Cheers

Geo .