Venting Being ignored sucks.

[CoolGuy9]

To watch someone go from being obsessed with you to just willing to talk to you to avoiding you at all cost just makes you realize what what a degenerate you are and it sucks.

 

[voool]

Agreed

 

[Eeyore]

What happened?

 

[aspx]

It gets worse when they only talk with you when they need help.

 

[Life sucks]

Humans sucks. That's one of the reasons why I'll never want to interact with them.

 

[21Neberg]

Humans sucks. That's one of the reasons why I'll never want to interact with them.

The flip side of that i are the gigantic feelings of loneliness. They're fucking killing me, literally.

 

[GeorgeJL]

To watch someone go from being obsessed with you to just willing to talk to you to avoiding you at all cost just makes you realize what what a degenerate you are and it sucks.

Have you tried self development?

 

[CoolGuy9]

What happened?

I met a girl over the internet (Never met her face to face and I know I am pathetic for liking someone so much who I have never met) and for the first 2 months we were completely obsessed with each other. Then she said she couldn't do it any more. After that we would chat sometimes. At first she would still send messages at random, but that stopped and she just slowly lost interest in me. At the end, the conversations were as bland as you can imagine, because she had absolutely 0 interest in me. Then she ghosted me.

Have you tried self development?

No clue how to do that.

 

[GeorgeJL]

No clue how to do that.

If you have any desire to live I highly suggest that you check out the self authoring program.

Self Authoring

Self Authoring - What is Self Authoring?

www.selfauthoring.com

This is a decent start to self development. But there are certainly many other paths to take down this road to personal growth.

 

[Final Escape]

To watch someone go from being obsessed with you to just willing to talk to you to avoiding you at all cost just makes you realize what what a degenerate you are and it sucks.

Yes this has happened to me too at points in my life, it's devastating and initially very painful but u will get over it in time. Don't let it make u bitter, it's not always something u did wrong. It can be issues with the other person.

 

[Mrt]

It sucks to be dumped

 

[Final Escape]

If you have any desire to live I highly suggest that you check out the self authoring program.

Self Authoring

Self Authoring - What is Self Authoring?

www.selfauthoring.com

This is a decent start to self development. But there are certainly many other paths to take down this road to personal growth.

I did the self authoring program by Jordan Peterson but only got through the past authoring right when I got arrested the cops took my laptop I was so pissed lol! I highly recommend the program even if u think u might be planning ctb. It could really help u get clarity and direction.

 

[CoolGuy9]

Yes this has happened to me too at points in my life, it's devastating and initially very painful but u will get over it in time. Don't let it make u bitter, it's not always something u did wrong. It can be issues with the other person.

Becoming bitter is something i'm actually scared of. I can already feel a small part of me wanting to think that all women are whores. It's a very small part of me, but still a part of me and I fear it may grow stronger with time.

If you have any desire to live I highly suggest that you check out the self authoring program.

Self Authoring

Self Authoring - What is Self Authoring?

www.selfauthoring.com

This is a decent start to self development. But there are certainly many other paths to take down this road to personal growth.

Thanks. I'll try to check it out later, but fear that I will forget.

 

[Final Escape]

Becoming bitter is something i'm actually scared of. I can already feel a small part of me wanting to think that all women are whores. It's a very small part of me, but still a part of me and I fear it may grow stronger with time.

Thanks. I'll try to check it out later, but fear that I will forget.

Well many women may behave like whores and especially if they had no dad, and were sexually abused as children. Often there's no help to work through this stuff either. So they just stay in the destructive cycle. You would have to try to find women who have both biological parents and stable intact home. Go to a Christian Church or different ones regularly to increase your odds of meeting a woman who hasn't been damaged. I'm sorry if this offends women who had no dad since I'am one of those women. I'm not saying fatherless women are trash it's just the risk of relationship problems tends to be worse because u never learned about what men expect and how to be in the female role. It's like I became masculine in my behaviors and thinking as a result of no dad. That's turn off to men if u want them to stick around. Sure I had my mom as an example of female role but I barely spent time with her and she was not the best model because she was more in the male role as provider throughout my life. So that didn't help me much.

 

[Roberto]

To watch someone go from being obsessed with you to just willing to talk to you to avoiding you at all cost just makes you realize what what a degenerate you are and it sucks.

It happened to me more than once. For me it's very difficult to make friends / girlfriend. So ... I take badly the rejection after any commitment. I have low self-steem and it's quite hard for me. The people I know they make new friends easily. May be they are handsome / nicer / have better social skills. I don't know. I just can tell you I understand and I would like to give you a big hug to lessen your hurt.

 

[Jodes]

People suck

 

[CornerE]

You don't have to take that too personally , it doesn't necessarily mean you're a bad company .

I think it's either her having hard time , personal or career issues that make her depleted and need some time by herself .
( when I'm stressed , I tend to cut off all people for a while , even the ones I like , even social media is too much to me ) .
That happens .

Or , there may be something you discussed that she didn't like or agree with .
Again , it doesn't mean you're a bad guy .
She could be a conservative/racist and you're too liberal for her .

She doesn't think you belong to each others and most likely , she's right .

Everyone have some beliefs or secrets and - based on your conversations - she may have felt that you're not gonna be ok with it .
That's all.

 

[CoolGuy9]

You don't have to take that too personally , it doesn't necessarily mean you're a bad company .

I think it's either her having hard time , personal or career issues that make her depleted and need some time by herself .
( when I'm stressed , I tend to cut off all people for a while , even the ones I like , even social media is too much to me ) .
That happens .

Or , there may be something you discussed that she didn't like or agree with .
Again , it doesn't mean you're a bad guy .
She could be a conservative/racist and you're too liberal for her .

She doesn't think you belong to each others and most likely , she's right .

Everyone have some beliefs or secrets and - based on your conversations - she may have felt that you're not gonna be ok with it .
That's all.

She did have a hard time personally and i'm sure that had something to do with it, but I did something myself that definitively didn't help the situation to put it nicely.

 

[CornerE]

She did have a hard time personally and i'm sure that had something to do with it, but I did something myself that definitively didn't help the situation to put it nicely.

 

[FTL.Wanderer]

To watch someone go from being obsessed with you to just willing to talk to you to avoiding you at all cost just makes you realize what what a degenerate you are and it sucks.

I agree. And yet nearly all of us feel entitled to ignore others. I don't know how that works--people realizing how painful something is but then (not you!) doing it to others. Humans just can't get our ish together.