I wondered that as well, seemed her pain and suffering was ignored in the latter half of the video as if preventing her from the path she felt she needed was more important. Hope she isn't suffering whatever has happened.
Agree. When he was saying "how could she do that" etc it seemed to be without a thought for her pain which she articulated in the note. The focus should have been his sister and her suffering, not how he felt.
One of the stories about Beachy Head which angered me most was one in which someone told of how he grabbed hold of a woman who jumped and said something like "I'll have to live with this", how self-centred and arrogant without even considering not only the pain she'd been in but what she was having to feel at that moment thanks to him.