Avoiding my sister

[Parnate]

my sister used to be verbally abusive to me . She has changed today, after she got married. She is very nice to me now. Even back then when she was abusive , she did a lot for me. She cooked for me, bought me clothes, laptop etc. but I was too sensitive and took all that shouting to heart. Most importantly she completely denied my depression. She blamed me for my problems. She said I was depressed cause I was lazy, I had negative thinking, cause I was a loner etc etc.
She has changed and understands better now. she often invites me to her home , but I am just reminded of all the things that happened in the past and just want to be away from her.

 

[LighthouseHermit]

That's a tough situation. You can choose to forgive and give her a new chance. Forgiving means forgetting, and that is incredibly hard. Do what feels best for you.

I'm sorry she treated you so badly. Not being taken seriously is like poring salt into an open wound. You deserve better.