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Torturedsoul
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- Sep 14, 2019
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I've mainly just been lurking on this site but right now I don't know who or where to turn to. Not actively planning on ctb but I so wish I could just disappear from the face of this rotten earth and humanity.
So I was diagnosed with autism just last year. I am now on a short holiday in Berlin and was excited to have met a fellow autistic for the first time, in real life. This was really a chance encounter at the hostel. We had a good conversation and the revelation eventually came that we are both autistic, since we both observed certain oddities in each other.
This encounter honestly made me very happy and excited, like I've never been in a long while – even more so than the sightseeing. But, as with all things in life, happiness is ephemeral.
This morning, I noticed that my first IRL autistic friend I just made has blocked and unfriended me on FB.
I'm sitting here wondering what went wrong. There was no conflict throughout the few days that we got to know each other. In fact our conversations went so deeply about many things, and we share very similar life history. Was it something I said or did? Was it an inherent trait I cannot change, like my ethnicity or my refugee background?
I always thought autistic individuals are open minded and accepting. Maybe the whole world is just equally rotten. It's left me feeling so broken and I want to just cut short my trip and curl up in bed. Unfortunately it will cost more to go home now than if I stayed on. Suicide is never far from my mind, and has been for years.For me this is an eventuality rather than a possibility.
Oh and in case you're wondering, no I'm not "rich". I took this trip spontaneously and I spent most of my savings. Even here I'm living on a shoestring.
Today confirms that I simply don't belong here. That I'm just a fucking mistake. If I'm rejected by even "my own kind" then where do I belong...? Just end me...
So I was diagnosed with autism just last year. I am now on a short holiday in Berlin and was excited to have met a fellow autistic for the first time, in real life. This was really a chance encounter at the hostel. We had a good conversation and the revelation eventually came that we are both autistic, since we both observed certain oddities in each other.
This encounter honestly made me very happy and excited, like I've never been in a long while – even more so than the sightseeing. But, as with all things in life, happiness is ephemeral.
This morning, I noticed that my first IRL autistic friend I just made has blocked and unfriended me on FB.
I'm sitting here wondering what went wrong. There was no conflict throughout the few days that we got to know each other. In fact our conversations went so deeply about many things, and we share very similar life history. Was it something I said or did? Was it an inherent trait I cannot change, like my ethnicity or my refugee background?
I always thought autistic individuals are open minded and accepting. Maybe the whole world is just equally rotten. It's left me feeling so broken and I want to just cut short my trip and curl up in bed. Unfortunately it will cost more to go home now than if I stayed on. Suicide is never far from my mind, and has been for years.For me this is an eventuality rather than a possibility.
Oh and in case you're wondering, no I'm not "rich". I took this trip spontaneously and I spent most of my savings. Even here I'm living on a shoestring.
Today confirms that I simply don't belong here. That I'm just a fucking mistake. If I'm rejected by even "my own kind" then where do I belong...? Just end me...
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