dolphin

dolphin

aquatic thing
Feb 7, 2019
213
I am debating on whether or not I want to leave my facebook up or not ... I don't really want people posting "goodbye" messages (although I'm not sure if they would) and I would prefer that fewer people find out about my death. What about you guys?
 
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Kikoo Loool

Kikoo Loool

Enlightened
Feb 25, 2019
1,128
Good idea. I've no social media account at all and that's very well, nobody would post such goodbye stuff.
 
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Bulletwbttrflywings

Bulletwbttrflywings

My soul is awakened... and I’m f*cked
May 29, 2019
244
I am debating on whether or not I want to leave my facebook up or not ... I don't really want people posting "goodbye" messages (although I'm not sure if they would) and I would prefer that fewer people find out about my death. What about you guys?
That's a good idea... never even thought about that. Probably a yes for me.
 
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stillwoozy

stillwoozy

Member
May 28, 2019
48
I plan on it. It's not a priority, because I'm inactive on all social media already, but the idea of "goodbye messages" irk me too.
 
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Darkhaven

Darkhaven

All i have left is memories
May 19, 2019
979
Not only social media but everything related to my person will be erased.
I think i will like burn everything from clothes, gadgets, accesories,cards and wallets, photos. Everything.
 
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jake3d

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May 29, 2019
1,033
I don't have a facebook so i don't care.
 
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Rukia

Rukia

Enlightened
Jun 3, 2019
1,078
My friend died recently (not of suicide though) and his facebook account got deleted probably by a family member...But many people found out about his death via Facebook...
So it may be prudent to delete the account beforehand...Facebook gives you time to think about it... I do not remeber how many days before they actually delete the account... so you can always change you mind in case you decide not to go ahead with CTB...
 
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Ashpac

Ashpac

Lost and always will be.
Jul 22, 2018
795
Hell yeah Fuck social media.
 
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crimea_river

crimea_river

Experienced
May 27, 2019
210
I've never done the really popular social media like fb and twitter. Largely because, invariably it means that I'd end up having to interact with people from my past and generally there's usually a good reason that they were in my past in the first place. Besides, me being the product, tracking blah blah blah has always made me resist any temptaion to 'get involved'.
 
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dolphin

dolphin

aquatic thing
Feb 7, 2019
213
Good call guys. I will delete it.
 
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maka

maka

this is for you, mi cuervito 𓇢𓆸
Apr 23, 2019
160
I wanted to completely wipe the files on my computer and phone, delete anything that suggests I ever existed, etc. I wanted to delete all of my social media but one. I love my friends more than anything and I plan on posting a final message for them about how it isn't their fault and they shouldn't worry too much. It sounds selfish, yeah, me thinking people actually care, but I thought it'd be a nice gesture.
 
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Faraway1990

Faraway1990

Student
Jun 2, 2019
195
I barely use Facebook etc so I haven't thought about it so thank you for making me think about it! I'll probably make a final message and then email Facebook asking them to delete my account after a couple days. I'm going to make sure there's nothing that will link to this community ❤️ much love to everyone
 
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LogicalConclusion

LogicalConclusion

Experienced
Jun 2, 2019
239
I'm on the fence about this, but I've considered setting a delayed status to say goodbye and that it's okay now, I just don't know honestly. For now I have it but don't use it just so I can act like everything is fine if someone happens to message me (and the ones who have stopped responding once I said the I'm not doing well). Idk part of me hopes people would care a bit but probably we'll all just be relieved.
 
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inconsequential

inconsequential

Enlightened
Jun 1, 2019
1,011
Yeah. I don't need any fake sympathy given from people who never truly understood in the first place.
 
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RainAndSadness

RainAndSadness

Administrator
Jun 12, 2018
2,135
I'll leave it up. There will be a goodbye post, explaining what led to this situation. For me it's important to communicate the reasons of my suicide because it has a lot to do with external factors, mostly societal issues - and I want to shred some lights on those reasons that made me commit suicide in the first place. I've described it as a final act of activism in the past and that's my goal. It's probably not gonna change anything but at least my message is out there. I don't want to leave in silence and I think it's my responsibility to give all those people a voice who suffer from the same problems as I do.
 
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wanttodie

wanttodie

Enlightened
Apr 19, 2018
1,802
me to RainAndSadness 'll leave it up. There will have some one post a goodbye post for me letting know im gone
 
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LastFlowers

LastFlowers

the haru that can read
Apr 27, 2019
2,170
I don't have social media but I plan to delete everything else.
 
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ExitTheDay

ExitTheDay

We fight to live or live to die
May 26, 2019
336
Social media is depressing, it's nothing more than a pedestal for people to inflate their pretentious egos... I deactivated my account long ago and never plan on going back
 
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any%

any%

Student
May 2, 2019
168
Also there is no such thing as deleting a facebook account, because they changed their policy about that a fears back. They will never delete your data, but they will inactivate your account, but it is far from gone. But I guess for your purposes that inactivation is enough. I also dont have any social media - one less thing to care for I guess.
 
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Taylored

I've figured it out
Sep 20, 2018
321
I've deleted my social media but I plan on deleting everything off my phone.
 
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Egddios

Egddios

Specialist
Oct 27, 2018
395
Planning to "reset" my phone and/or erase all data, disable access to my email accounts, etc. It makes me feel sick to my stomach to imagine police looking through my phone for "clues" or "answers", and of course, I am protective of this site and community. I am active on Reddit and will likely delete that account as well.

I do plan to leave a few notes, one for my sister, one for my nieces and nephew, etc.

I'll be resetting my laptop, too. Either that or destroying the hard drive.
 
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LifeIsNotFun

LifeIsNotFun

Mage
Jun 1, 2019
530
I deleted my social media a long time ago. Just seeing how sheepish everyone is just pissed me off.
 
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Imgonnahangmyself

Student
May 25, 2019
150
I've only got Instagram, I'm gonna delete all my pics before I kill my self
 
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