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quietbird

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If you're on disability for solely mental health reasons, I am curious:

1. Where do you live?
3. How difficult was it to get on?
3. If you dont mind sharing, what is your disability or the disabilities that you have and listed?

It always seems like it would be incredibly difficult and overwhelming to do. I always hear about people struggling for years to get approved and that it doesn't even help a lot...
 
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Disclaimer: I myself have never applied for disability, but my career in disability services has me interact with a lot of folk who are on SSDI.

In the United States, to get on disability, regardless of your diagnosis, you have to prove that this diagnosis impacts you in such a way that makes it impossible for you to do ANY sort of gainful employment.

Most people I know of who get disability and who have mental health issues either A. also have autism or another neurodivergence, or B. also have a physical issue of some kind. It is possible to get on disability with just a mental health condition, but to prove that said mental health condition makes it impossible for you to do any job, it often takes a lot of doctor documentation, often from impatient facilities if that's applicable. It also "helps" in this regard if you have a resume full of failed jobs -- if you've had 10 jobs in the past year and none lasted more than a month, for example, that does demonstrate that you've tried work and that work isn't a feasible thing for you.

That said, most people who apply for disability for mental health conditions are denied the first time and often have to appeal, sometimes twice or more, obtaining even more documentation from doctors, vocational rehab, whoever may help (if you had mental health issues in school and have the school documentation to prove it, that can also help). Having access to a lawyer to help with the appeal also helps -- some areas have agencies that offer a certain number of pro-bono cases to this end.

The pay is often significantly lower than the cost of living, but being on SSDI or SSI does often qualify you for food stamps, Medicaid/Medicare, utility assistance, and maybe even rental assistance, depending on which state you live in. Most people who live on SSDI/SSI alone are struggling, but it can keep you out of homelessness if you otherwise have NO income coming in.
 
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quietbird

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Disclaimer: I myself have never applied for disability, but my career in disability services has me interact with a lot of folk who are on SSDI.

In the United States, to get on disability, regardless of your diagnosis, you have to prove that this diagnosis impacts you in such a way that makes it impossible for you to do ANY sort of gainful employment.

Most people I know of who get disability and who have mental health issues either A. also have autism or another neurodivergence, or B. also have a physical issue of some kind. It is possible to get on disability with just a mental health condition, but to prove that said mental health condition makes it impossible for you to do any job, it often takes a lot of doctor documentation, often from impatient facilities if that's applicable. It also "helps" in this regard if you have a resume full of failed jobs -- if you've had 10 jobs in the past year and none lasted more than a month, for example, that does demonstrate that you've tried work and that work isn't a feasible thing for you.

That said, most people who apply for disability for mental health conditions are denied the first time and often have to appeal, sometimes twice or more, obtaining even more documentation from doctors, vocational rehab, whoever may help (if you had mental health issues in school and have the school documentation to prove it, that can also help). Having access to a lawyer to help with the appeal also helps -- some areas have agencies that offer a certain number of pro-bono cases to this end.

The pay is often significantly lower than the cost of living, but being on SSDI or SSI does often qualify you for food stamps, Medicaid/Medicare, utility assistance, and maybe even rental assistance, depending on which state you live in. Most people who live on SSDI/SSI alone are struggling, but it can keep you out of homelessness if you otherwise have NO income coming in.
Hi. Oh wow, thank you so much for providing all of this helpful information. This aligns with things I've read online. Someone who is a social worker told me last week that everyone should apply if mental health keeps them from work... But that seemed awfully optimistic to me.

Would it be okay if I messaged you with a couple questions? I'd rather not write them here.
 
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INYGTRMTFMO

I Need Your Grace To Remind Me To Find My Own
May 1, 2025
53
Hi. Oh wow, thank you so much for providing all of this helpful information. This aligns with things I've read online. Someone who is a social worker told me last week that everyone should apply if mental health keeps them from work... But that seemed awfully optimistic to me.

Would it be okay if I messaged you with a couple questions? I'd rather not write them here.
I may not answer right away (about to put baby to bed) but sure!
 

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