Discussion Are you going to inform people about your death...?

[hahabye]

Changing your status on social media, messengers, any other way...? Or just let them (all the acquaintances, etc.) wonder where you've gone?

 

[trynacbt]

I'm hoping my sister will on my behalf. I've included a note to my closest friends in the suicide letter I've written to her.

 

[blivogade]

Honestly i dont think so, i wouldn't want to risk being found before id finished.

 

[Emily123]

Yes . Because I did not kill myself . i was murdered . Those two surgeons who botched my face killed me . All those people who were making joke on me killed me . The companies that fired me for being transgender killed me . The society which did not respect my true identity killed me . I was too young to die but people did not let me live my life . I will let everybody know because I want my death be message to all those people who don't let us to live as human

 

[Hotsackage]

Its gonna be a surprise

 

[Sweet emotion]

Changing your status on social media, messengers, any other way...? Or just let them (all the acquaintances, etc.) wonder where you've gone?

This is a good way of getting caught or having the police called on you. You can't tell anyone this

 

[DepressionsAHo]

I just told my mom
Not the best but I don't even care anymore

 

[LonelyLight]

Nope, if they care enough to wonder where I am, then they will find out.
This is a small town tho and as I've seen in the recent suicides here, that person is idolised on Facebook for 4 days and then forgotten

 

[hatelife]

Yes . Because I did not kill myself . i was murdered . Those two surgeons who botched my face killed me . All those people who were making joke on me killed me . The companies that fired me for being transgender killed me . The society which did not respect my true identity killed me . I was too young to die but people did not let me live my life . I will let everybody know because I want my death be message to all those people who don't let us to live as human

same

 

[Kowahi2310]

In the letter I left for my family, I have left short messages for the people I still cared about, so they will know. I wrote their names and their numbers so that my sister will give them a ring/message to inform them.

 

[AnxiouslyDepressed]

I've thought about telling people that it is coming, but I don't actually have anyone to tell anymore

 

[Brick In The Wall]

I've dropped a few hints at the possibility. But you can never really outright say it without risking your freedom. That's why this place is so great, you can get these feelings off your chest.

I've setup a legacy contact with the little social media I do use. I'll probably leave a note as well but that's about it.

 

[ninthhokage]

I'm going to leave a note with my address and the contact information for the few people I want to be informed right away.

 

[vonvonwantpeace]

NO.

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

same

Me too
:(

 

[LastWhisper]

I'll leave a delayed note, so they will know about this post-factum only.

 

[TAW122]

I will let the people close to me know (circumstance depending though - never to compromise my readiness or opportunity) and will be doing so via a delayed email/text notes so this way if something unexpected happens such that I have to postpone or cancel my attempt, I still have enough time to retract my notes.

 

[RecycledAtoms]

I have pondered this question over and over in my mind. IE: What difference does it make to inform someone, if they will eventually find out anyway? At the same time, I would like a chance to see how others would react; just to know if it would be worth going through or not. At the same time, you can't take it back once you say it. So I have a lot of mixed feelings on this one.

I've written several suicide notes and then deleted them. I've pondered whether to even leave one. In many stories that I have read about, leaving a note has left more questions than answers.

 

[purplemoon]

I'm not going to tell anyone, no suicide note, nothing... mainly because I don''t want to upset my mother and sister, so I'm going to make it look like I accidentally overdosed on Tylenol with a migraine. (at least that's my draft plan)

If I don't use SN, then I will go the old-fashioned way....

No Water, No food, and hope within 9 days or less for relief via Heaven.

I will, however, conveniently leave out a diary journal of sorts nearby, along with poetry that will be very revealing about how I feel.

I say this with reservation, as I keep worrying about my mother.... it's making me hesitate a whole lot.

I'm torn about when to ctb, but I think i will have no choice if I cannot pay my rent.... even though I love my Mom.

I can't go though more evil trauma, I just cannot.


A knight in shining armor is WAY overdue...





I guess that's humanity, and this planet. I'm just not designed for all this.

 

[RecycledAtoms]

I'm not going to tell anyone, no suicide note, nothing... mainly because I don''t want to upset my mother and sister, so I'm going to make it look like I accidentally overdosed on Tylenol with a migraine. (at least that's my draft plan)

If I don't use SN, then I will go the old-fashioned way....

No Water, No food, and hope within 9 days or less for relief via Heaven.

I will, however, conveniently leave out a diary journal of sorts nearby, along with poetry that will be very revealing about how I feel.

I say this with reservation, as I keep worrying about my mother.... it's making me hesitate a whole lot.

I'm torn about when to ctb, but I think i will have no choice if I cannot pay my rent.... even though I love my Mom.

I can't go though more evil trauma, I just cannot.


A knight in shining armor is WAY overdue...


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I guess that's humanity, and this planet. I'm just not designed for all this.

Not to sound contrary, but in order to take enough Tylenol to CTB, it is sure to not look accidental. I myself have pondered with "accidental" suicide. How the heck does a person make it look like a genuine accident, while at the same time ensuring the method is sure enough to be guaranteed.

 

[takeyourshotfunboy]

Only my online friends, they would get it

 

[Spock87]

I openly say no one gives a shit anyway

 

[purplemoon]

Not to sound contrary, but in order to take enough Tylenol to CTB, it is sure to not look accidental. I myself have pondered with "accidental" suicide. How the heck does a person make it look like a genuine accident, while at the same time ensuring the method is sure enough to be guaranteed.

you have a valid point, absolutely. I just meant that if I do get SN, I thought it was difficult to confirm in an autopsy so I figured they would not understand why I passed on to the other side... that maybe with enough Tylenol it will look like my liver failed.

It's weird to think of some stranger doing an autopsy on my sad, tired physical vessel, Ewww!
*sigh* I hope they are at least good looking and have some basic morals...

 

[RecycledAtoms]

you have a valid point, absolutely. I just meant that if I do get SN, I thought it was difficult to confirm in an autopsy so I figured they would not understand why I passed on to the other side... that maybe with enough Tylenol it will look like my liver failed.

It's weird to think of some stranger doing an autopsy on my sad, tired physical vessel, Ewww!
*sigh* I hope they are at least good looking and have some basic morals...

Yeah that does seem a little weird. I had never thought of that before. Maybe I'll take a trip to an active volcano and "accidentally" fall in. Then, no one will know it was suicide, AND there will be no way to recover the body and no one will have to see it!

 

[Untitled]

Yes . Because I did not kill myself . i was murdered . Those two surgeons who botched my face killed me . All those people who were making joke on me killed me . The companies that fired me for being transgender killed me . The society which did not respect my true identity killed me . I was too young to die but people did not let me live my life . I will let everybody know because I want my death be message to all those people who don't let us to live as human

Emily123, I am so sorry for what you had to go through. I can't imagine how hard it must have been for you. I truly hope you will find peace soon.
I know that you probably haven't found justice either, but I do hope still that you will find it too.

I imagine many of us know injustice and unfairness to different degrees here on the forums.

 

[hahabye]

This is a good way of getting caught or having the police called on you. You can't tell anyone this

I meant more like making your profile pic on WhatsApp black or just changing your status to a cross. So that it wouldn't catch any immediate attention but people would have an idea later about why you don't answer anymore

 

[CrushedHopes]

I have already left behind several documents that detail my decision in wanting to CTB. The aftermath won't be pretty.

 

[RestingGirl23]

I've actually thought about this a bit because I don't really know what to do with my social media when I decide to ctb. Should I leave it? Erase it? At the end of the day, I never cared for SM so I don't really care what happens to it after I leave. (I hardly post or look at it anyway.) part of me thinks that if you post a good bye on it you're pretty much asking for help. So I wouldnt.
I would like to leave a small note to my best friend telling her thank you for all these years that we've been together and sorry that I would be leaving her.
I don't really have anything else to say to anyone else. Some people have been good to me but I feel weird sending them a (delayed) message because we don't each other that well and I don't want them to feel guilty.

 

[MeltingHeart]

They will find out soon enough away. No need to tell them in advance. OR even by delayed mail/ posting. Word will get out anyway in time

 

[Sweet emotion]

I meant more like making your profile pic on WhatsApp black or just changing your status to a cross. So that it wouldn't catch any immediate attention but people would have an idea later about why you don't answer anymore

No....I've noticed that now you learn about death on social media. That is how I heard about an old friend and my cousin dying and I think it's ridiculous. If you're good friends with people they will be told by family.