Are you burning all your bridges and destroying your relationships?

[Fadeawaaaay]

Leaving no path back?

 

[DunnoWhyButYeah]

Pretty much.

 

[Fadeawaaaay]

Pretty much.

How so?

 

[grungeCat]

Yes, mainly non-intentionally though

 

[Snake of Eden]

Already burned all bridges and sabotaged all relationships. It is more fitting this way

 

[Kobusu]

Burned all bridges with all close friends save one. I can't bring myself to, since she's like my little sister. Didn't burn any with family, don't really need to.

 

[Rational man]

Yes, its happened so naturally. Hope no-one sends out a life boat for me.

 

[FuneralCry]

I have been isolating myself from people for years apart from a few family members. There was no relationships to destroy in the first place, pretty much all my time is spent alone and that is the best thing for me. I cannot stand most people.

 

[doesntmatter_94]

Yeah, I keep telling myself that I have a bad influence on others. Also, because I'm planning to take SN in three weeks, I've stopped responding to people's texts because I feel like it'll be easier for them to handle my death if we've already been distant for a while. So I keep telling myself that it's for their own good. No matter how much it hurts me.

 

[justsayin]

No more bridges left to burn.

 

[DunnoWhyButYeah]

How so?

Hmm well I don't do things with friends, I don't get in touch with them much because I don't have energy for that and I don't feel like. I try to be alone as much as possible. In the end, friends no longer try to contact me. I'm also a lot "offline" so friends won't try to contact me so easily. Someday they forget me.

I also don't let get people close to me (or well, easily at least, I just let one xD but it's different situation) ... I've been distancing myself from one person for a long time now and trying to end the relationship.

Actually, I try my best to end up in a situation where I'm alone. An easier situation for others and for me when I've kind of been away and distant before I'm gone forever.

 

[Insomniac]

more like my relationships are autodestructing.
It's not more my fault than it is theirs.

I try not to think about it.

 

[mlha]

Some of the bridges aren't burnt, but they're definitely in decay.

 

[stellabelle]

Leaving no path back?

May the "burned bridges" light the way.

Unfortunately it seems that people can burn bridges for people, and people can "burn their own bridges" - which falls under "victim" or "survivor" of circumstances.

People ignore the problem rather than solving it.
People start to enable people who create problems, rather than putting a stop to those activities from the get-go.

People twist what people say, how it is said, ignore it, escalate, and cause destruction.

People blame people for their problems, but don't assist in solving those problems.

People say that we have "choices" - since when? To whom?

And to be oppressed or abused and told "too bad" and "grow up" when the people who oppressed you don't do so - and then we say, well oh well.

People fish for trouble, create it where it is not needed, and assault people for not responding to how "they" want it.

I could laugh a thousand times because of stupidity.

Selfishness.
Selfishness is a problem.

Narcissistic society.

 

[Thisisme373]

It's happening naturally, I'm isolating more and more, some don't understand depression or want to be near it, my few relationships I have are fading away but barely care. All I know is pain.

 

[Brayu]

My reasoning is different... I really don't think that pulling away can be beneficial to the ones who stay, they would feel even more guilty (or that it's something to them).

Unless, as happens to me, people don't look for you and isolate you on account (the problem is theirs in this case)

Yeah, I keep telling myself that I have a bad influence on others. Also, because I'm planning to take SN in three weeks, I've stopped responding to people's texts because I feel like it'll be easier for them to handle my death if we've already been distant for a while. So I keep telling myself that it's for their own good. No matter how much it hurts me.

My reasoning is different... I really don't think that pulling away can be beneficial to the ones who stay, they would feel even more guilty (or that it's something to them).

Unless, as happens to me, people don't look for you and isolate you on account (the problem is theirs in this case)
Most people ran away from me... they believe I'm toxic, that I destroy their positivity... so I won't be missed, right?