Discussion Are you also single?

[Sivrit]

It's been a few months since I have been in a relationship up with someone. They had said that I deserved better and decided to end the relationship then and there but I still got hurt anyways. It's not like I miss her specifically; I just miss having someone be there. Yet, it really does feel like I wont have something like that ever again. I feel almost desperate, longing for something like that again. What about you guys?

 

[Darkover]

I had a relationship when I was 16 for 2 and half years best time of my life not had a relationship or sex for 20 years now
life has been utter shit to me ever since my first relationship I miss the intimacy and companionship life just was never meant to be for me
if god wanted me to be happy here he wouldn't let me feel so repressed and fragmented

 

[UKscotty]

No, I don't seem to do well being single.

I have a bad habit of getting into new relationships with days of breakups.

Last few GFs have not lasted more than a few months.

 

[Hotsackage]

Not by choice

 

[Sivrit]

I had a relationship when I was 16 for 2 and half years best time of my life not had a relationship or sex for 20 years now
life has been utter shit to me ever since my first relationship I miss the intimacy and companionship life just was never meant to be for me
if god wanted me to be happy here he wouldn't let me feel so repressed and fragmented

Jesus man, that is really fucking tough.

No, I don't seem to do well being single.

I have a bad habit of getting into new relationships with days of breakups.

Last few GFs have not lasted more than a few months.

At least you've learned how to get into relationships with ease. I'm not undermining your struggle or saying that it's a good thing, just wish I had some understanding on how to have something like that again.

Not by choice

Real asf

 

[Darkover]

Jesus man, that is really fucking tough.

yeap the thought that i would never have sex again at the age of 18 drove me into madness i developed schizophrenia

 

[Sivrit]

yeap the thought that i would never have sex again at the age of 18 drove me into madness i developed schizophrenia

I feel for you man. It feels weird to say but it feels like it's a fundamental part of really living.

 

[Namarupa]

I'm 24 and permanently virgin/celibate. Testosterone makes me miserable from time to time, but I'm used to it by now. At least I get to cope with other hobbies.

 

[sserafim]

I've always been single. I've never had a relationship before, nor do I want one. Romance and relationships never appealed to me. I never understood why people want a partner so badly. I hate people and humanity in general; why would I want a partner…

 

[Sivrit]

I've always been single. I've never had a relationship before, nor do I want one. Romance and relationships never appealed to me. I never understood why people wanted a partner so badly. I hate people and humanity in general, so why would I want a partner…

I get what you mean. I feel the same way sometimes.

 

[BlendedHeart]

Months? Try years. I love women, they don't love me. Craving for love and intimacy every day, that isn't a good feeling.

It's my own fault. I know I'm ugly, but that isn't a problem for many others. I also lack a good personality, emotional maturity, self-confidence, etc. I'm a mess. I could work on that, but there's other factors (mostly mental) that don't allow me to improve.

 

[tbroken]

I like companionship, but i'm afraid of social complications.
I think ppl don't want stable and long-lasting relationships in this age, they just want to have fun, or use you.

 

[Little_Suzy]

Happily and comfortably married, with no children. Do you think anhedonia cares?

 

[LastLoveSong]

unfortunately

 

[FuneralCry]

I've never had any interest in that, to me it's all just so shallow and repulsive. I only wish for death, there's nothing desirable about suffering in this evil world. To me human existence is an abomination, I see humans as the worst species.

 

[sserafim]

I've never had any interest in that, to me it's all just so shallow and repulsive. I only wish for death, there's nothing desirable about suffering in this evil world. To me human existence is an abomination, I see humans as the worst species.

Literally

 

[EvisceratedJester]

I've always been single. I've never had a relationship before, nor do I want one. Romance and relationships never appealed to me. I never understood why people want a partner so badly. I hate people and humanity in general; why would I want a partner…

Wait, but didn't you make a post about having a bad dream over your crush moving on and getting with someone else?

 

[sserafim]

Wait, but didn't you make a post about having a bad dream over your crush moving on and getting with someone else?

Yeah but like I don't want to actually have a relationship irl. I can't imagine doing it in real life. Idk, I think I'm aromantic

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Yeah but like I don't want to actually have a relationship irl

Then why do you keep on making posts about your crush then?

 

[sserafim]

Then why do you keep on making posts about your crush then?

I don't know. Maybe it's like some kind of s*xual or platonic attraction

 

[EvisceratedJester]

I don't know. Maybe it's like some kind of s*xual or platonic attraction

Okay

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I've been single all my life and I don't really care about it. All I really want from life is to be dead. I don't care about relationships or anything else

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I've also never been in a relationship in my 30 years of life and yet I've honestly always wanted one for a good two thirds of that time. I don't deserve one though which is the only reasonable explanation for why I've never had one yet. I don't even care if it ends up being disappointing I still want one and yet I am aware I shouldn't have one.

 

[GorgeousGuillotine]

I've been in a happy loving relationship for almost two years. He has no idea I'm on here. Would probably break his heart

 

[PolishPanda46]

Yes never tried to get into one

 

[ringo99]

Single here with zero interest in starting a family or a new relationship not even a casual one. I just wanna die

 

[Raven2]

Yes, divorced. Had another relationship but it didnt last long. I've been single for 3 years now.

I think I may be asexual so theres not much hope of finding some nearby who is also the same even if I am on the dating sites specifically for asexuals everyone is so far away and I dont see the point in long distance relationships.
I miss coming home to someone and the closeness

 

[Sivrit]

unfortunately

I cant go to your profile right now sadly

I've also never been in a relationship in my 30 years of life and yet I've honestly always wanted one for a good two thirds of that time. I don't deserve one though which is the only reasonable explanation for why I've never had one yet. I don't even care if it ends up being disappointing I still want one and yet I am aware I shouldn't have one.

I feel for you man. I think everyone should have at least a chance at a happy relationship but these days are rough.

 

[Dark Moon]

I am single. I would like someone but I don't think I would be wanted with my condition and maybe I'm not good enough I don't know.

I've always been single. I've never had a relationship before, nor do I want one. Romance and relationships never appealed to me. I never understood why people want a partner so badly. I hate people and humanity in general; why would I want a partner…

I don't want a partner so badly but it would be nice to have someone.

 

[divinemistress36]

I've always only had hook ups. I'm to emotionally unstable for a relationship and I don't want to have to get out of bed to hang out with them