Anything I should worry about when ordering SN from DSL? (US based)

[ForgetIExist]

Sometime withing the next few weeks/month I'm gonna place my SN order from DSL. I love with my parents and have a few concerns...

1. My main concern is that my package will be seized at customs and I could end up getting a wellness check. I've only heard of people from Europe getting wellness checks but I figured I'd ask if anyone in the US has received wellness checks due to buying SN. I'm wondering if I should order with a fake name and have the package shipped to my grandma's house (She doesn't even understand her phone so I doubt she would figure out what I ordered.) This also prevents my parents from opening it or finding it suspicious if it ends up being labeled as chemicals.

2. I kinda already touched on it above, but I'm also wondering what the package looks like when it arrives.

3. How long does it usually take to ship to the US? My mom is potentially leaving the state for a few days around Memorial Day, so I might try ordering my SN so that it would arrive when she isn't there to see the package.

Thanks

 

[ForgetIExist]

Maybe you don't love them quite enough, since you're about to put them through the most pain a person can endure in this life

I do not love my mom.

 

[ForgetIExist]

How about your Dad?

I currently have a restraining order against him.

 

[aufrechtm7]

Rough estimate, I would say at least 2-6 weeks depending on shipping option. There's always the chance the package is seized too.

 

[ForgetIExist]

Rough estimate, I would say at least 2-6 weeks depending on shipping option. There's always the chance the package is seized too.

Do you know how common it is for packages to the US to get seized?

 

[aufrechtm7]

Maybe you don't love them quite enough, since you're about to put them through the most pain a person can endure in this life

It seems to have been a typo

 

[ForgetIExist]

It seems to have been a typo

Didn't even realize that. I thought it was weird that someone was questioning my love for my parents. I meant to say I live with my parents. My parents can eat dirt for all I care. They fucking SUCK

 

[eggsausagerice]

Didn't even realize that. I thought it was weird that someone was questioning my love for my parents. I meant to say I live with my parents. My parents can eat dirt for all I care. They fucking SUCK

so real. i was wondering why they were asking that too because i read your post too fast and thought it did say live. i think unsupportive parents are the worst people ever. i get pretty irritated when people assume that the reason i haven't committed suicide is because i care about my parents, but they're honestly the reason i'm doing it in the first place. i'm pretty jealous of people that don't have a really terrible relationship with their parents. no one besides my sister is able to understand how awful they are and we both want to move away.

 

[CenturiesEnd]

Sometime withing the next few weeks/month I'm gonna place my SN order from DSL. I love with my parents and have a few concerns...

1. My main concern is that my package will be seized at customs and I could end up getting a wellness check. I've only heard of people from Europe getting wellness checks but I figured I'd ask if anyone in the US has received wellness checks due to buying SN. I'm wondering if I should order with a fake name and have the package shipped to my grandma's house (She doesn't even understand her phone so I doubt she would figure out what I ordered.) This also prevents my parents from opening it or finding it suspicious if it ends up being labeled as chemicals.

2. I kinda already touched on it above, but I'm also wondering what the package looks like when it arrives.

3. How long does it usually take to ship to the US? My mom is potentially leaving the state for a few days around Memorial Day, so I might try ordering my SN so that it would arrive when she isn't there to see the package.

Thanks

I ordered a few days ago and it's already in the US. I'll let you know if there's any welfare check risk but 99% chance things are safe here in the U.S. as the senate has not passed the bill outlawing pure SN yet (or something along those lines).

 

[aufrechtm7]

I ordered a few days ago and it's already in the US. I'll let you know if there's any welfare check risk but 99% chance things are safe here in the U.S. as the senate has not passed the bill outlawing pure SN yet (or something along those lines).

The bill? Wait what, that's a thing that's in progress?

 

[a-lien]

that's fast, with express :D?

 

[doomerguy88]

Maybe you don't love them quite enough, since you're about to put them through the most pain a person can endure in this life

I love my mom to death and we live together. But I am I such a bad way mentally to the point it makes it hard for me to show her that love, which is something I used to be able to do easily. I have SN and the thought of putting her through that is devastating to me which is one of the only things stopping me I think. But part me of also feels like am I supposed to keep suffering just to not put her through that. I guess what I am trying to say is that just because you feel like you have no other choice but to end your suffering doesn't mean you don't love the people you are close to who would have to deal with it.

 

[CenturiesEnd]

The bill? Wait what, that's a thing that's in progress?

Yup, take a look at The Youth Poisoning Protection Act (H.R. 4310)

 

[aufrechtm7]

Yup, take a look at The Youth Poisoning Protection Act (H.R. 4310)

Learn something new every day I guess lol

 

[ForgetIExist]

so real. i was wondering why they were asking that too because i read your post too fast and thought it did say live. i think unsupportive parents are the worst people ever. i get pretty irritated when people assume that the reason i haven't committed suicide is because i care about my parents, but they're honestly the reason i'm doing it in the first place. i'm pretty jealous of people that don't have a really terrible relationship with their parents. no one besides my sister is able to understand how awful they are and we both want to move away.

OMG SAME!! I honestly wouldn't be on this site of I had better parents. They genuinely had no business having children. I also feel a sense of sadness when I see people on this forum talk about how they worry about their parents. Obviously sadness for the fact that they are in this forum, but also a feeling that I missed out on that aspect if family because I realized in high school that my parents didn't love me and I didn't love them.

I ordered a few days ago and it's already in the US. I'll let you know if there's any welfare check risk but 99% chance things are safe here in the U.S. as the senate has not passed the bill outlawing pure SN yet (or something along those lines).

Ooo thanks! I heard a thick or two about that bill. I'm hoping it doesn't get passed before I order it.