Help Anyone want to meet?

[elizabethisworthless]

Can anyone in Europe or the uk meet with me. I feel so lonely...

 

[Angina]

Be careful, girl.

 

[schopenh]

Hey Elizabeth, be very cautious. People will prey on your emotional vulerability and young age. I would highly recommend not meeting anyone on this website to be honest. No matter how they come across. I know you're lonely but this could end very poorly. I sent you some voice messages I hope they make you feel a little less lonely, understandable if they don't. It's ok if you don't reply and feel free to post as often as you like irrespective of what other members may say

 

[EmbraceOfTheVoid]

I plan on meeting someone here I met 7 months ago but that's only after getting to know one another. I don't think it's a good idea to meet anyone from here at the drop of a hat, it's asking for trouble.

 

[RileyTanaka]

Trust me. Don't do it.

 

[Deleted member 19276]

Yeah, I'd say be very careful... Sometimes, people are not what they are.
It's understandable that you feel alone and wish to get to talk to someone in real life, but there are all sorts of "monsters" out there.

 

[4eyebiped]

Let me be a bit more reasonable and say, I would recommend NOT meeting someone off ANY website without having talked to them for a LONG while. Good and bad people reside everywhere, online and offline. With that said, there are lots of people here to talk to when you are lonely and a chat channel that is also available. I haven't used the chat channel to know how many active people there are but it exists none the less.

 

[Anonymoussn]

What is deterring me from talking to people outside of this forum (whether that be in person, or on social media) is that a few other people have told me that after having gotten to know someone better, they've had contact from the police after someone they came to know CTB'd. They didnt get arrested or anything like that, the police were just following up to see if they knew anything. But if you live with family, who know you have mental health issues, the last thing you want is a knock at the door from the police saying someone you know has died.

I've never heard of anyone saying the same about people they've only spoken to on this site, so I'm absolutely confident we are safe here, but places like Facebook and WhatsApp simply dont offer the protection that this site does.

I'm aware that you've said nothing about speaking on social media, but I just assume if you end up meeting someone, you'll probably exchange numbers/social media details too, so just thought it was a point worth making.

 

[somniummalum]

Elisabeth, you are having a rough time right now, I get it.

May I suggest you just relax, calm down a bit, maybe find something you like doing to distract from negative feelings...
Be cautious of meeting strangers from the internet! Please don't

I know we haven't talked before, but still I want you to know that if you want to talk, just hit me up.
You can add me on skype / discord if you want.

Trust me. Don't do it.

you had a bad experience?

 

[Deleted member 17949]

I mean depending on where exactly in the UK I could probably meet you, but you should be more careful with questions like this ngl. Don't go assuming that anyone here is totally safe just because they show sympathy for people's problems. As others are saying please be careful. That said if you do get to know someone well and take proper precautions before meeting then I'm sure it can be a nice experience. As with any meeting from online friends always assume they could be a LARPing serial killer at the worst.

Case point: maybe reconsider meeting someone you haven't spoken to a lot first.

 

[Deleted member 19276]

Same here Elisabeth!
I can provide a Discord if it means keeping you safe from some creep that wants to find a new "victim".
Please, try to calm yourself and feel more content if possible. I know it can be hard, the solitude, being left to the arbitrary...
But don't trust the whole, get to know someone IRL... It can be very dangerous.

 

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

Hey. Its understandable to want irl connection. Its a natural craving especially in these times. Your feelings and wants are valid

That being said, even though this is a great community, every place is filled with people who want to others. Especially with how easy one can hide their identity online, its best to be safe and careful

Do you have a friend you could meet up with? Or if not, maybe just go for a walk? I apologize if my answers aren't helping....

 

[Aap]

There was a horrible story posted of a similar situation, I believe also from the UK. There are good people here, and their are wolves in sheep's clothing. You will not know the difference until it is too late to do anything about it. Trust me, the kind of people who want to hurt you can talk to you online for as long as it takes. You can't tell the difference.

 

[Brokenwithbpd]

Hey Elizabeth, be very cautious. People will prey on your emotional vulerability and young age. I would highly recommend not meeting anyone on this website to be honest. No matter how they come across. I know you're lonely but this could end very poorly. I sent you some voice messages I hope they make you feel a little less lonely, understandable if they don't. It's ok if you don't reply and feel free to post as often as you like irrespective of what other members may say

You can send voice messages on here?

 

[elizabethisworthless]

Hey. Its understandable to want irl connection. Its a natural craving especially in these times. Your feelings and wants are valid

That being said, even though this is a great community, every place is filled with people who want to others. Especially with how easy one can hide their identity online, its best to be safe and careful

Do you have a friend you could meet up with? Or if not, maybe just go for a walk? I apologize if my answers aren't helping....

I have no friends I go for walks but even that don't help much with the loneliness I only have my mum but I'm not coping with being lonely none my family care much and I don't have many family the only interaction I have most of the time is only on a screen or the few words I exchange with my mum everyday I really would like someone to meet with me anyone just so I don't have to feel alone for a day

 

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

I have no friends I go for walks but even that don't help much with the loneliness I only have my mum but I'm not coping with being lonely none my family care much and I don't have many family the only interaction I have most of the time is only on a screen or the few words I exchange with my mum everyday I really would like someone to meet with me anyone just so I don't have to feel alone for a day

I feel the same way. I think trying new things can help. Fro example, while im living with my dad and bro I'm gonna try to not be around them as much. Maybe do new things like bake bread for the first time. Trying something new can help.

 

[elizabethisworthless]

Be careful, girl.

Thanks but I'm desperate just for some human interaction

 

[Anonymoussn]

Thanks but I'm desperate just for some human interaction

Humans really arent that great. Have you considered getting a dog instead?

 

[EmbraceOfTheVoid]

Humans really arent that great. Have you considered getting a dog instead?

My grocery bag

 

[Joey]

Just becareful because not everyone are what they really are. I wish you the best.

 

[ghostgirl1995]

A lot of people on here are faking who they are please be careful

 

[AnxietyAttack44]

Now im curious. Would anyone actually meet up in real?

 

[Fullof pain]

Hi Elizabeth, I can feel your pain and I am so sorry that you are suffering right now. I understand the desperate need for human interaction, truly. But like everyone else I would advise caution. Sadly being sensitive can attract the wrong type of people and I wouldn't wish that for you. Honestly, if I could take away your pain I would, but all I can offer is my words.... you are not alone here, and I send you comfort and hugs.

 

[EraseRewind]

Hi Elizabeth, loneliness is just so hard especially during this time when everyone is keeping themselves to themselves. I can only agree with what has been said here and say be really careful, maybe get to know some people online first and then take it slowly from there.

I suffer with lonely feelings and this lockdown has taken away my only real life outlets but I'm trying to keep in touch through the safe online media's.

Have you tried chat on here or any other forums messengers.

I'm up for an online chat when I'm around.

I wish you the best.

 

[limpingtowardfreedom]

To all the fearmongering people on here, do you have any examples of bad things that have actually happened or are you just being cautious?

I'd been considering seeing if anyone on this site was nearby and understanding enough to want to have some contact with another human being 'one last time', but I want to know what exactly is a realistic worry in that situation and what isn't.

 

[Sinai Silence]

You could try organize a Discord or Skype meetup first. Get to know people, the more people join the better. I wouldn't rush into meeting people irl though. I'm in the UK too making some friends would be nice.

 

[limpingtowardfreedom]

Im the same i want someone to meet up with. I feel so alone right now. Infact here is my number ####

Hey, I hope someone calls you, but it's probably a better idea to say people can PM you for your number so it isn't just sitting out there and can be tied to you or abused or anything

 

[JustKillBen22]

Can anyone in Europe or the uk meet with me. I feel so lonely...

I'm in UK and would be happy to meet, however I will not do it without contacting each other first, for my sake a little but mainly for yours, I know what it's like to hurt and feel alone, I can really relate, so if nothing else message me please.

 

[limpingtowardfreedom]

I think meeting is a good idea for many people here, but I definitely agree with that guy ^ that you should all talk at least a little bit first, absolutely do not go into it blind.

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

To all the fearmongering people on here, do you have any examples of bad things that have actually happened or are you just being cautious?

I'd been considering seeing if anyone on this site was nearby and understanding enough to want to have some contact with another human being 'one last time', but I want to know what exactly is a realistic worry in that situation and what isn't.

Help to determine for yourself if there are legitimate worries about meeting online strangers irl:

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/thre...sex-or-genuine-ctb-partner.30946/#post-567547

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/dangerous-people-on-the-forum.39157/

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/word-of-advice-for-partner-finding.40382/#post-770785

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