I had one just once...and it fell through. Girl said she was dead set on it, we were going to combine methods and she back at out the end.
The reason was juvenile but it showed that she wasn't as suicidal as she expressed and that is completely fine by me. You have to be ready for this sort of thing and be committed, the ONLY reason I am still here was that I was found.
That won't happen this time around. SO HA! lol