I am the same when it comes to women. They are such remarkable and lovely creatures. I appreciate the near countless list of unique and delightful things about them. One cannot help but to be compelled to compliment them or say and do things to make them feel good.
As far as me, I am repulsive to most it seems. Actions and comments make it obvious, along with a dreadful length of singlehood. But, I do not try to hide my looks nor do I spend hours trying to find the perfect camera angle or anything similar. It is what it is. You like it or you don't. We all have our disadvantages, one of mine is easy to see. I will probably add a picture to my profile as I never liked the idea of someone potentially getting an inaccurate image of me in their head to later be disappointed. I also like the idea of adding a more human element to the site but I see the argument both ways here. I have no fears of people in the real seeing it and knowing my business.
I could find something to like about anyone, but the unfortunate part is the opposite side of the coin; there's seemingly lots to dislike about many people. Most of that being their cruel, callous behaviors.
I might appear visually appealing this way, or that way. Or the opposite. Visually unappealing, repulsive. Not all people are photogenic. They appear differently at different angles, in different lighting, different clothing.
I've posted my photo before. People have doxxed me in general.
I had no fear of people seeing or knowing this either. For the same reason that I have proven it repeatedly. That what I have said is true. That what has occurred is a fact and not in fiction.
It's more ANNOYING than anything that they think it's going to cause more harm than what's already been done.
Start going after the shit disturbers who created these problems, not the people like me who are sick of it.
They know what they did. They know they're fucked up. They know.