There are predators on this forum. Someone who is disabled is not able to fight back against someone abled, strong, and who has an agenda. I empathize with the need and desperation, but it could turn out very badly.
Edit: Not intending to cause offense to you, OP, but this is a caution to readers. The OP could be a predator, too. Serial killer Ted Bundy's MO was to wear an arm sling and ask women to help him with putting his groceries in the car.