sincerelysad
bpd . chronic pain . ptsd . pls be kind <3
- Jan 4, 2023
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i've spent a lot of time here and in general thinking about what method is best for me and i believe i've settled on SN. it's cheaper than most, most easily accessible (in the future i assume, which brings me to the point of this post..), and seems the most peaceful for the amount of time and money i am/will be able to spend on ctb.
the issue im struggling with is waiting for the moment in time where the product is accessible, i have enough time and privacy, and im emotionally ready. a lot of stars have to align there for me to be able to follow through and it's causing me a mass amount of grief and anxiety.
i wish i was able to privately make my own decisions and save my own money. my partner has been difficult and abusive (not physically) but i really do think he's been trying lately and the idea that i'm just pretending to be happy and pretending to be comfortable while i wait for my golden opportunity to start prepping to ctb is making me feel so gross inside.
there's no winning. with suicide and depression and all of this shit there's no winner and there's no loser. there's just waiting and then there's heartbreak. i wish it didn't have to be this way. i wish i could find my own peace. i wish things were different.
but they're not, and they won't be. they won't get better. i've watched everyone around me get worse, become unhappier, and long for something they can't describe. i know what i long for, and it's to be free of all of this. i can't do it anymore.
and so i wait. i twiddle my thumbs and i go through the motions and i avoid homelessness, because god forbid i become homeless before acquiring a way out, god forbid that happens, and i wait. i wait for my chance to die. and i feel like shit about it.
the issue im struggling with is waiting for the moment in time where the product is accessible, i have enough time and privacy, and im emotionally ready. a lot of stars have to align there for me to be able to follow through and it's causing me a mass amount of grief and anxiety.
i wish i was able to privately make my own decisions and save my own money. my partner has been difficult and abusive (not physically) but i really do think he's been trying lately and the idea that i'm just pretending to be happy and pretending to be comfortable while i wait for my golden opportunity to start prepping to ctb is making me feel so gross inside.
there's no winning. with suicide and depression and all of this shit there's no winner and there's no loser. there's just waiting and then there's heartbreak. i wish it didn't have to be this way. i wish i could find my own peace. i wish things were different.
but they're not, and they won't be. they won't get better. i've watched everyone around me get worse, become unhappier, and long for something they can't describe. i know what i long for, and it's to be free of all of this. i can't do it anymore.
and so i wait. i twiddle my thumbs and i go through the motions and i avoid homelessness, because god forbid i become homeless before acquiring a way out, god forbid that happens, and i wait. i wait for my chance to die. and i feel like shit about it.