Suicidebydeath
No chances to be happy - dead inside
- Nov 25, 2021
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I was probably the last person she spoke to. I can't say which method but it seemed relatively painless. I should be feeling more but I'm more scared than ever now for the next person I know that is suicidal. She didn't tell me she was doing it until about an hour before.
I want to say more here but I'm going to wait for confirmation of their death, however it's very likely without medical intervention.
The most scary thing is that it was sudden and their ctb date jumped forward by 3 months (it was April, and they live far away internationally). Hopefully they found peace, but I'm more worried than ever that the person I care about most could ctb in the same way, without advance notice. I cared about both of them, and despite what she's been through I thought she would hang on for longer. I might be experiencing denial right now, need to wait 1-2 days to see whether I hear back from them or not before it sinks in.
They were under a lot of stress at the time. When I asked why they felt they had to go today. "i don't know exactly it's beome too heavy on me. I can't fool myself anymore, it doesn't change. i don't get better." - which is sad because I can relate to feeling that way but also I know that things can change even if it's not what you want and it's a long-term rollercoaster, also I wouldn't be here if I had got what I want from life. I could still get it but the person I care about is suicidal.
I wouldn't be any different to them because if I had access to a peaceful method there are probably some days I might have taken it. It's kind of terrible knowing that, even though I'm not sure if I would take it or not. I know having access makes some people feel better but it would probably make me feel worse.
Thank you for reacts. I wish I felt more but I'm just numb all of the time. That will protect me if more people ctb but at what cost. It's like I don't have a soul anymore. I care a lot about the perpetrator that hurt her in her last few weeks receiving justice, I care that she passed peacefully with her brain on a high to prevent any kind of death-nightmare before total ctb. I worry about the person I care about most could ctb at any time.
I want to say more here but I'm going to wait for confirmation of their death, however it's very likely without medical intervention.
The most scary thing is that it was sudden and their ctb date jumped forward by 3 months (it was April, and they live far away internationally). Hopefully they found peace, but I'm more worried than ever that the person I care about most could ctb in the same way, without advance notice. I cared about both of them, and despite what she's been through I thought she would hang on for longer. I might be experiencing denial right now, need to wait 1-2 days to see whether I hear back from them or not before it sinks in.
They were under a lot of stress at the time. When I asked why they felt they had to go today. "i don't know exactly it's beome too heavy on me. I can't fool myself anymore, it doesn't change. i don't get better." - which is sad because I can relate to feeling that way but also I know that things can change even if it's not what you want and it's a long-term rollercoaster, also I wouldn't be here if I had got what I want from life. I could still get it but the person I care about is suicidal.
I wouldn't be any different to them because if I had access to a peaceful method there are probably some days I might have taken it. It's kind of terrible knowing that, even though I'm not sure if I would take it or not. I know having access makes some people feel better but it would probably make me feel worse.
Thank you for reacts. I wish I felt more but I'm just numb all of the time. That will protect me if more people ctb but at what cost. It's like I don't have a soul anymore. I care a lot about the perpetrator that hurt her in her last few weeks receiving justice, I care that she passed peacefully with her brain on a high to prevent any kind of death-nightmare before total ctb. I worry about the person I care about most could ctb at any time.
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